missingu Posted October 16, 2013 Share Posted October 16, 2013 I know this guy through a friend.. When we all hung out in a group just me and the guys,he was different around me.. He is quiet when I'm around. When his friend wAs being vulgar, he just sat and shook his head. He also looked at me quite a bit too and it was clear when he asked for my number that we were attracted to each other. Our friend kept asking me if I'd go out with him and after refusing a few times i said ok why not..well he started chatting to me..he never asked me out but we see each other out a bit. We got drunk and he was all over me flirting all night. He was around me a lot trying to be alone with me. In the end he said he thinks I like him. I admitted it and asked him if he likes me too and he kissed me. When we were sober next time he said it was weird kissing me and when I shrugged it off he told me he doesn't regret it and he liked it and kept saying he thinks I liked it too. And then didn't talk too much after that he just sat quietly. Do I have to ask him out or is he just playing?? I like him and we chat in fb a lot..lots of flirting,lots of smileys etc.. He tells me how cool he is but he is playful..and when I ended the chat he said "fine I didn't want to continue this conversation anyway" and then he said bye babe smiley face kiss hug. What do I do?? Link to post Share on other sites
Assasda Posted October 16, 2013 Share Posted October 16, 2013 Ask him to hang with you!! thats simple Link to post Share on other sites
kendallk Posted October 16, 2013 Share Posted October 16, 2013 He said it was weird kissing you? That's a bad sign. Most men see women as sexual objects not human beings like themselves. So when I see questions like yours almost always the answer is yes, he is using you for sex. If you are under the age of 30, the chance is 90% likely to be yes Link to post Share on other sites
tlegend Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 He said it was weird kissing you? That's a bad sign. Most men see women as sexual objects not human beings like themselves. So when I see questions like yours almost always the answer is yes, he is using you for sex. If you are under the age of 30, the chance is 90% likely to be yes What the hell are you talking about? Sounds like you are a bit younger and so is he. Pretty sure the wierd comment was just to break the ice of the awkward moment that you have to deal with after making out with someone after being drunk. When you wake, its often hard to break that first layer of ice and to basically say "yeah, that happened". As for "ending the conversation", it seems like he's trying to be sarcastic but you can't always tell that in a message written purely with text. He likes you silly. Enjoy it! Link to post Share on other sites
Author missingu Posted October 18, 2013 Author Share Posted October 18, 2013 Ok my question is if he likes me why doesn't he ask me out..I'm a friendly easy going girl, I work hard, I pay my way,I'm smart,I'm attractive. I love my family and friends.. Yet I am alone. I've never had a relationship..I want one.i want someone who cares for me and I care for them.. I felt something the first time I met him..nothing happened until a few months later because he went away but I felt something..and it was clear to me sitting there amongst him and his friends (one i had just been on a date with) he felt something too. And when he started talking to me on fb, it's always during the day..with other guys I've only ever heard from them at night because they want one thing..the way we look at each other is like there's something there.. I don't know what to do anymore.. Maybe I'm just meant to be single Link to post Share on other sites
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