So I can't get my mother in law out of my head (serious)

[Mailman]

Alright, I'll elaborate. My mother in law is in her mid 50s. She's not someone that is noticeably attractive but she has big breasts. She is significantly older than me since I am married to her daughter. Her personality ranges from a little bossy to sarcastic at times. She is the grandmother to our kids. But the kicker is, I have had lustful thoughts about her over the last year or so.

 

Now, my wife is beautiful, she is young, sexy and I have been faithful to her every day I've been with her. However, the odd time I have had fantasies about my mother-in law. She's lost a bit of weight lately and it seemed to start around the time we went to the beach last year, but I ignored it. However, it keeps happening and I have had a couple of really hot dreams about her which I won't get into (use your imagination).

 

So, help me out here. I don't want this at all. I am not ever suggesting that I would make a move on her, of course not, but I am just wondering if anyone has some tips as to get a person out of your head that you know has no business in your fantasies in the first place. I need some suggestions.

[ConstantVoyager]

Imagine her pregnant with and giving birth to your wife.

[acrosstheuniverse]

Don't sweat it, the more you have worries and fears over this fantasy the more it'll plague you.

 

People fantasise about ALL kinds of things. Seriously, you've used the internet, you've seen what porn is out there!

 

As long as it never comes across to her and you never try and act on it, it really is irrelevant what you fantasise about in your private time.

[tlegend]

Don't sweat it, the more you have worries and fears over this fantasy the more it'll plague you.

 

People fantasise about ALL kinds of things. Seriously, you've used the internet, you've seen what porn is out there!

 

As long as it never comes across to her and you never try and act on it, it really is irrelevant what you fantasise about in your private time.

 

Fantasies are not something to be ashamed about. Just keep this one to yourself.

[Mailman]

Oh don't worry, this one doesn't leave my mind at all. I guess a lot of it happened when I recently saw some older pictures of her. She was 18-19 in these pictures and I believe she was a "looker" at that time. For whatever reason I was attracted to those pictures. Anyway, it doesn't get in the way of anything of course and never will. But it can be a little uncomfortable for me at times.

[crederer]

I think it's pretty obvious....you have to titty thrust your mum in law

[Mailman]

Well you're in luck Mailman!

 

It just so happens that I'm a clinical internet psychologist working with couples in therapy, and have extensive experience with dream analysis and the subconscious.

 

There is most likely a deeper meaning behind your dream, which might improve your relationship with both your wife and your mother!

 

Now in order to help you, I need you to retell your dreams in as much detail as you can... Leave nothing out! Every last detail, like even every position or what she's wearing might have hidden meaning! Don't fast forward or skip through anything!

 

Now lay it on, eh I mean lets hear it. I'm all ears and this is strictly professional!

 

The relationship I have with both of them is fine. For whatever reason I've had steamy dreams lately about my mother in law. Asleep and awake. About what she looks like naked, or about how long it has been since she's been pleasured by a man (she's divorced) and whether or not she shaves down there or not (probably not, because of her age). Yeah, its been a little problematic for me. I think a lot of it has to do with the fact that my mother in law can have a lot of sass to her and be a real control freak. Because other than that, she isn't someone you would notice walking down the street. So yes, I have a problem with privately getting aroused over her.

 

I think it's pretty obvious....you have to titty thrust your mum in law

 

I've thought about it, for sure. Of course, just THOUGHT about it.

[Criticality]

Aside from: Think about her when you're having sex with your wife, if things ever get a little boring in bed!

 

The only advice I can give is: Try to go to a therapist and see what makes you have this reaction. You don't have to, but it could be interesting.

 

Oh, and write a story about it, and send it to Penthouse or Playboy. I sense this could be amazing fap-material that would be a sin not to share with the world. And they pay pretty well.

[Mailman]

Aside from: Think about her when you're having sex with your wife, if things ever get a little boring in bed!

 

The only advice I can give is: Try to go to a therapist and see what makes you have this reaction. You don't have to, but it could be interesting.

 

Oh, and write a story about it, and send it to Penthouse or Playboy. I sense this could be amazing fap-material that would be a sin not to share with the world. And they pay pretty well.

 

I have blown over her while having sex a few times. Just because it felt right at the moment. Overall, I have a knockout of a wife and she is the one who truly turns me on, so this could just be one of those stupid fantasies that are meaningless.