tasha Posted March 12, 1999 Share Posted March 12, 1999 I have a problem. I love my boyfriend but I would like to call myself somewhat of an exhibitionist. I want to try new sexual things. I'm no lesbian or anything, but I want to have threesomes, with MEN. I want to include my boyfriend, but I don't know how to seriously approach him with the idea. And if I did, how he would react to it. I truly value our relationship, but he already thinks I'm a bit wierd because I watch pornos with him. Even though, he really likes me to watch them with him. Sometimes I just want to do what they're doing, but only once. I don't want him to think that I'm some kind of pervert, but I really do want to act out at least one of my fantasies. Am I a freak for wanting this? Link to post Share on other sites
kiey Posted March 12, 1999 Share Posted March 12, 1999 It would normally surprise me to hear of a girl wanting a threesome, but I'm not surprised. I, myself, have fantasized maybe once or twice about a threesome, but I would never have the guts to act upon it. I respect you for even having more courage to act out your fantasies. If I were you, I'd tell him, and if he can't accept it, do it anyway. However if you really value your relationship, your best bet is not to tell him of your fantasy at all. I have a problem. I love my boyfriend but I would like to call myself somewhat of an exhibitionist. I want to try new sexual things. I'm no lesbian or anything, but I want to have threesomes, with MEN. I want to include my boyfriend, but I don't know how to seriously approach him with the idea. And if I did, how he would react to it. I truly value our relationship, but he already thinks I'm a bit wierd because I watch pornos with him. Even though, he really likes me to watch them with him. Sometimes I just want to do what they're doing, but only once. I don't want him to think that I'm some kind of pervert, but I really do want to act out at least one of my fantasies. Am I a freak for wanting this? Link to post Share on other sites
Frannie Brown Posted March 13, 1999 Share Posted March 13, 1999 Dont expect your boyfriend to be pleased that you want to include another man in your sex life. Most straight guys dont fantasize about including other men in their sexual relations with their girlfriend. In fact, he might even be offended and think he is not able to satisfy you. Unless your boyfriend is very open-minded or bi-sexual, I think you better to stick to fantasies. I have a problem. I love my boyfriend but I would like to call myself somewhat of an exhibitionist. I want to try new sexual things. I'm no lesbian or anything, but I want to have threesomes, with MEN. I want to include my boyfriend, but I don't know how to seriously approach him with the idea. And if I did, how he would react to it. I truly value our relationship, but he already thinks I'm a bit wierd because I watch pornos with him. Even though, he really likes me to watch them with him. Sometimes I just want to do what they're doing, but only once. I don't want him to think that I'm some kind of pervert, but I really do want to act out at least one of my fantasies. Am I a freak for wanting this? Link to post Share on other sites
Thiamine Posted March 13, 1999 Share Posted March 13, 1999 I have a problem. I love my boyfriend but I would like to call myself somewhat of an exhibitionist. I want to try new sexual things. I'm no lesbian or anything, but I want to have threesomes, with MEN. I want to include my boyfriend, but I don't know how to seriously approach him with the idea. And if I did, how he would react to it. I truly value our relationship, but he already thinks I'm a bit wierd because I watch pornos with him. Even though, he really likes me to watch them with him. Sometimes I just want to do what they're doing, but only once. I don't want him to think that I'm some kind of pervert, but I really do want to act out at least one of my fantasies. Am I a freak for wanting this? Your not freaky for wanting this, but threesomes *never* do any good for your relationship and I strongly advise to stay away from them. It shows your relationship may be unstable and unsatisfying; and also, pornos are disgusting and don't display love in any way shape or form. Sex is something you should do with someone you love deeply as a special thing...not just wild-out there porn-styles. Don't do the threesome, figure out why you want it so bad first. Love, Thiamine Link to post Share on other sites
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