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new boyfriend goes distant


rach24680

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Hey, i've been dating a guy for 6 months and we've been officially a couple for 2 months. We started dating straight after he split up with his ex of 2 years, he said he split with her because she was boring and didn't have anything in common with her.

He used to tell me how i've made this year amazing for him and how awesome he thinks i am etc etc.

We only get to see each other once or twice a week, more often than not just once a week so I think it's pretty important for us to text and call as often as we can to keep things going.

Recently (within the past 4 weeks or so) with nothing substantial happening for this to have taken place, he goes quiet and stops with the texting and calling. I asked him if i'd done something wrong and he got all soppy saying he's sorry and he'll try really hard to make more of an effort. This hasn't happened so I thought i'm not making all the effort 24/7 and somehow we've not spoken for 3 days now.. we were supposed to be spending the weekend together but instead we just haven't even text each other.

Now i don't know where i stand and don't know how to approach him and what to say to him =( we get on so well when we're together, it's when we're apart that the problems are.

Also might I add, he told me his ex had got in touch with him saying she wanted him back and he said no, but he still messages her and 'snapchats' all the time with her. I wonder if he's just getting his kicks from knowing she's still into him or if there's something still there between them.

Any help appreciated thanks!

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