nbman Posted October 24, 2013 Share Posted October 24, 2013 If you worry about H seeing anyone else, you are only asking for hurt and pain. We add additional stress to your already over loaded emotional plate? All you can do is keep your eyes and ears open like Yarrow said. H is going to do whatever he "thinks/feels is right for H". That is the only way he can justify his behavior with you and the kids. Guilt can be easily transformed into anger and resintment for the person/family you are taking advnatage of, and let's face it; we are all on LS because someone is taking advantage of our feelings, trust, volnurability and most of all, our LOVE!! I am struggling with how long do I give W to show progress before I am forced to move on wihtout. The longer we live in the house together and go about our daily lives, the more I see that I will know, when I know. So will you! Could be tomorrow, could be 6 months.. Don't set an arbitrary time line, instead wait for that moment that you wake up and know, TODAY IS THE DAY I TAKE MY LIFE AND FAMILY BACK!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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