What does he want? He's married, coming home to me, hugs etc..? Doesn't feel normal?

[AHT]

If you and your former teacher take a coffee in your apartment, lunchtime, and now decided to do it again soon (after some weeks) - what would you think?

 

This teacher always hugged you in school in his office - close twoarmed hugs, cheek to cheek. Also placed a hand on your waist as respons when you placed a hand on his shoulder or after hugs. Often he hugs you several times in a row. And he often takes your hand/hands after hugs. Smiling. He did the same thing after the coffee in the apartment - 3 hugs in a row, took hands.

 

You share the same interests in specific subjects (that's why you talked so often in his office). He has said several times you're his best student ever, you're not like everyone else etc. Has comment your body like "there's no many gram too much there" smiling. One time in the beginning said you're his soulmate, after a hug.

 

You're 19, he's 55+ and married, has adopted young children.

It's in Sweden, you're both swedish, so hugs etc are really not in the culture.

You graduated in June, in the apartment was first time you two meet after graduation.

[todreaminblue]

in any culture ...swedish or otherwise..this is wrong you know it...so stop it...he is married..deb

[xxoo]

I'd think he's a gross old man.

 

He wants to have sex with you, and isn't thinking much beyond that.

[whichwayisup]

If you and your former teacher take a coffee in your apartment, lunchtime, and now decided to do it again soon (after some weeks) - what would you think?

 

This teacher always hugged you in school in his office - close twoarmed hugs, cheek to cheek. Also placed a hand on your waist as respons when you placed a hand on his shoulder or after hugs. Often he hugs you several times in a row. And he often takes your hand/hands after hugs. Smiling. He did the same thing after the coffee in the apartment - 3 hugs in a row, took hands.

 

You share the same interests in specific subjects (that's why you talked so often in his office). He has said several times you're his best student ever, you're not like everyone else etc. Has comment your body like "there's no many gram too much there" smiling. One time in the beginning said you're his soulmate, after a hug.

 

You're 19, he's 55+ and married, has adopted young children.

It's in Sweden, you're both swedish, so hugs etc are really not in the culture.

You graduated in June, in the apartment was first time you two meet after graduation.

 

I'd say he is getting you ready for a fling/sexual affair...Nothing more than that. He is attracted to you and you are attracted to him so it's only a matter of time before you two end up in bed together.

 

You are not his sole mate. You are his flirtation and gal of the month. Trust me, this 55 year old schmuck has done before, he's been around the block a few times and knows exactly what he's doing.

 

If you want a fun and exciting experience, then stay on this path, but just know the consquence of this is, YOU WILL BE HURT and feel used once it ends. And it will end in heartbreak.

 

He is NOT going to leave his wife and adopted kids for you. He's 55 and lived a whole life of memories and you're 19, just starting out in life. Do the math.

 

PLEASE if you respect and love yourself you will NOT pursue him.

 

Find a guy closer to own you age and someone who is not married.