Any one ever have a problem showing sexual interest?

[galaxyman]

Any one ever have a problem showing sexual interest? I find that I do, and have for many years. In fact, the few women who I have dated would tell me they were baffled that I liked them. Funny enough, they only noticed it after I'd ask them out 2-3 times out. When I talk to women, I just talk: I joke around, I ask questions, etc. If I like them, the most I'd do is show interest and look at their eyes. But apparently doing this gives 0 indication that a man likes them.

 

So, I'm wondering, what's the answer? What do you do?

[todreaminblue]

hey galaxy man....most guys who have had sexual interest in me make it pretty obvious.......they touch...i am not used to any other way....its confusing honestly....

 

 

i normally have a pretty good track record of telling that guys like me in the past......had a keen radar because it was normally used to block a guy......the main interest i get is sexual interest.......

 

 

 

i have a history of being able to pick it....with guys who might want more than that......cant read them..thought i could but i cant......so ..lol... i advocate for "honesty is the best policy"......come out with it leave nothing to ambiguous possibilities...be open about what exactly it is you are looking for and then you absolutely know you wont be misinterpreted.....deb

[HoneyBadgerDontCare]

Just be direct, man. I used to do the touchy feely thing first, but even that is too indirect for me now.

 

It takes experience and practice, but it's the most effective way of expressing interest.

[jagon]

Girls like the confident approach dude..

 

I learnt this the hardest way

 

A good method if it's the right situation etc etc, is massage, offer a foot rub or back rub if you are good at them.

 

If you suck at them, get some practice first, a lot of practice.

[galaxyman]

Thanks for the tips guys. I always wonder when the right time is to be "direct". Sometimes I feel that I'm getting great signals (eye contact, touching, personal questions, hair waving), but struggle to find the time to start being "honest" with a woman that I like.

 

Is it ok during the first time you meet them? Or the 2nd? I want to tell them what I feel about them, but wonder if the 1st time you meet them is appropriate.

[HoneyBadgerDontCare]

Thanks for the tips guys. I always wonder when the right time is to be "direct". Sometimes I feel that I'm getting great signals (eye contact, touching, personal questions, hair waving), but struggle to find the time to start being "honest" with a woman that I like.

 

Is it ok during the first time you meet them? Or the 2nd? I want to tell them what I feel about them, but wonder if the 1st time you meet them is appropriate.

 

Unfortunately, man, experience is key here.

 

I know the right time to make moves because I could just feel it. I could just feel it because I've done it so many times and messed up many situations.

 

I've made plenty of moves the first time I met a girl (sometimes literally within seconds).

 

The more experience I obtained, the more successful I became.

 

Just one of those things.

 

The worst thing is to not do anything out of fear of rejection (I've been there many times too, man).

[patrol]

Playful flirting is probably the easiest way to show interest. It's actually pretty fun once you know how to do it.

[hppr]

Make physical contact as quickly as possible. Put your arm around her, touch her hair, get her back to your place with some wine and a backrub, then off to the bedroom.