SarahJames Posted October 21, 2013 Share Posted October 21, 2013 If you could ask your MM or exMM anything, ANYTHING at all without him ever remembering that you asked, what would you ask him? Link to post Share on other sites
AutumnMoon Posted October 21, 2013 Share Posted October 21, 2013 If you could ask your MM or exMM anything, ANYTHING at all without him ever remembering that you asked, what would you ask him? If he really meant what he said the first time we really shared how we felt.. It's been a year now, I believe the foggy place where we were drunk in love has slowly moved away and things are clearer.. And I would love to know if he would still say the same things to me he did that night knowing what he knows now. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
bentleychic Posted October 21, 2013 Share Posted October 21, 2013 I ask anything already. Now, if you said if you could ask anything AND give them truth serum so you know the answer is absolutely 100% the truth, that might be a different matter. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
cif Posted October 21, 2013 Share Posted October 21, 2013 Why he lied to me about having a GF. We could've been friends. But I guess that wasn't his priority.. getting laid was. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Daisy2013 Posted October 21, 2013 Share Posted October 21, 2013 Why did you do this to me? Why did you express your feelings and tell me you loved me and made me fall in love with you and you will never leave your W? Why didn't you just let our friendship be as it was? Before you opened up, I never knew. Link to post Share on other sites
wanting more Posted October 21, 2013 Share Posted October 21, 2013 Why did you do this to me? Why did you express your feelings and tell me you loved me and made me fall in love with you and you will never leave your W? Why didn't you just let our friendship be as it was? Before you opened up, I never knew. A year ago, this is what I needed answered. Link to post Share on other sites
RickFox Posted October 22, 2013 Share Posted October 22, 2013 nothing. don't ever want to speak to her again. ever. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
cif Posted October 22, 2013 Share Posted October 22, 2013 For me, silence is best. Well... that and outing him on cheater websites. Have you done this? I'm considering it but don't know how without it getting back to me. Link to post Share on other sites
lilmisscantbewrong Posted October 22, 2013 Share Posted October 22, 2013 Why he was able to walk away without apologizing to my husband or my kids and then letting his bs latch onto my nephew and niece and one my my long time fiends (who was like a son to us) and dividing them from our family - how he could hurt my family in that way I will never understand. This is beside what he did to me - asshat. Link to post Share on other sites
ChasingCars Posted October 22, 2013 Share Posted October 22, 2013 How hard was this for you? Link to post Share on other sites
lilmisscantbewrong Posted October 22, 2013 Share Posted October 22, 2013 (edited) He was a long time family friend, pretended to be my husbands fiend (in fact this is a point my husband brought up not all that long ago so I know it hurts him) - he pretended to be close to my kids. And then never ever apologized to them for blowing up their lives. His kids were far too young and never knew. I faced his wife on a couple of occasions but he could never face my husband. Then my niece and nephew and our long time family friend (who was like a son to both of us) - neither one speak to us anymore - I understand being upset with me but my husband and kids did nothing to deserve that, It is very difficult to watch someone you love in pain and know that you are responsible for it and that the person that you thought you loved and thought loved you was responsible as well and never had the balls to even say he was sorry. Edited October 22, 2013 by lilmisscantbewrong Link to post Share on other sites
Got it Posted October 22, 2013 Share Posted October 22, 2013 If you could ask your MM or exMM anything, ANYTHING at all without him ever remembering that you asked, what would you ask him? Nothing. I asked him everything I wanted to so no reason to have him forget me asking it. Why would you need to do that? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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