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We have been together for about 10 months now and I really think he could be the one. We talk a lot over skype and the phone but it's just not the same as real face to face. Recently he's been distant and it's making me worried. I don't know if he's cheating or maybe he's making some sort of secret plan or something. Any advice on what I should do or how I can approach him about it?

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We have been together for about 10 months now and I really think he could be the one. We talk a lot over skype and the phone but it's just not the same as real face to face. Recently he's been distant and it's making me worried. I don't know if he's cheating or maybe he's making some sort of secret plan or something. Any advice on what I should do or how I can approach him about it?
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We have been together for about 10 months now and I really think he could be the one. We talk a lot over skype and the phone but it's just not the same as real face to face. Recently he's been distant and it's making me worried. I don't know if he's cheating or maybe he's making some sort of secret plan or something. Any advice on what I should do or how I can approach him about it?

I'm more than that away from my b/f (600 miles) lol, different states. Yup, nothing beats being face-to-face, of course.

 

If he is being distant then that's not good. Communication is everything in a relationship, especially a long distance one. Communication is really all you have when you're apart, so it's necessary to talk, text, etc often. My b/f and I enjoy talking to each other, a lot. We never really run out of things to say over a year later. I think what keeps me going is knowing that we will be living close to each other in several months.

 

Tell your b/f that the lack of communication concerns you and ask him why he has been a little distant lately...If you don't ask HIM you won't know. However, if you think he is cheating then there is a lack of trust in the relationship and not just a lack of communication. I have no worries whatsoever about my guy ever cheating on me, I'm not naive or anything, I just fully trust him as much as he trusts me and know his character.

 

Have a good, mature talk with your guy soon. As well a deep thought process with yourself to re-evaluate how tings are going wit your relationship and ask yourself questions. Good luck!

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