vippy Posted December 9, 2004 Share Posted December 9, 2004 I'll try to make the story brief. I'm only a student, but I've got a prob, so please don't walk away if you got something on your mind... Maybe an advice... OK...I've been dating this guy for about half a year [i wrote about it earlier]. He cheated. But said it was a misnake when I texted him as soon as I found out about that. And he said he would like to continue the realtionship. I said no. I mean, what kind of a relationship it would be after two break- up tries and one cheat [the second try was connected with the cheat, btw]??? Anyway, we broke up. I was really depressed, really hurt and it was awful. Time passed and I'm STILL coping. I guess that nobody really knows I am coz I tell everyone [if they ask] I hate him- not coz of the cheat, but cause he's changed to the worse. So now I'm his enemy. He tried to make contact- as a friend, but I would just say no. A girl who used to be his good friend [she moved away from the city] asked me once how everything was. I told her we broke up. That is when she said that we would still get back 2gether. I don't know why. Then one of my friends said we would get back. But that's not everythingI wanted to say. Lately, my ex is trying to get my attention [at least it really looks like it coz he didn't do that after we broke up- until now]. So... He pays attention to the way I'm dressed, to the way I talk, says things like:"Why should I turn away when I want to look at you?" But he says that like he's wearing a mask- a small smile. I know he really doesn't like to show his feelings, that's why whenever someone says he still likes me, or he's beginning to like me for the second time, I doubt that. That's what makes me confused. Does he really still like me, or is he just playing on my nerves? I've almost coped with him. I just don't want to get hurt once more. Coz if he likes me and I'll get to know that he does, I'll just go nuts coz I'm going away to another country. And if he doesn't like me, then WHY is he playing like that? Link to post Share on other sites
Pocky Posted December 10, 2004 Share Posted December 10, 2004 You've tried having a relationship with him and it was unsuccessful. You have made up your mind not to continue a relationship with him and this decision should be consistent regardless of whether or not he confirms he has feelings for you. Regardless of how he is behaving, the only thing you should concern yourself with is how not be treated the same way. Ignore the comments that people make when they claim the two of you will be together and ignore the comments he makes when he publicly displays his sincere or insincere affections. Link to post Share on other sites
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