Chrisprescott29 Posted October 23, 2013 Posted October 23, 2013 There is a girl that I've known for a while and she has liked me for the better part of the last year. I never made a move because I was involved with another girl for a while (The girl that this thread is about didn't know this). And after that, I decided that I really didn't like her that much. Recently, I decided to give her a shot because there's always been something there and I wanted to see how it went. Anyways, we go to the same college and have a class together. At class yesterday, she kept dropping hints about how she wanted to hang out with me this weekend and stuff so I invited her to a party that we're having. It's a Halloween party, and we were talking about Halloween after I invited her, and she randomly brought up how she ended up hooking up with a guy that she knew after a Halloween party last year. It was completely random that she said this, and it had nothing to do with anything I was saying. This is the first time that we will be hanging out outside of class since I've known her. My question is, did she do this to let me know that she is DTF? Because I can't think of any other reason why she would have said what she did.
Lost561 Posted October 23, 2013 Posted October 23, 2013 That's a hard question to answer with very little information. She's going to your party.. There's always been something there you said.. I say odds are that things are looking good for you. Just be cool and act right and say the right things and you might get lucky.
Trimmer Posted October 23, 2013 Posted October 23, 2013 Don't ask anyone for advice on this question. Use your intuition to guide you. Trying to sort through this rationally is only going to stifle you, cause you to hesitate, second guess yourself, etc.; you get the picture. I agree - there's no way to "interpret" one single comment like this in any useful way. What you know: she's looking forward to hanging out with you. Don't try to predict the future (you can't) - go experience it.
Assasda Posted October 23, 2013 Posted October 23, 2013 I KNOW THIS She threw that out there to test you. To see if you would freak out about her being a "sexual being". You just kept calm and didnt even mention it, which is cool. I'm going to say YES, she is DTF. If you play i cool and just hang out with her, and dont get too needy, and dont ask her any relationship questions, YOU WILL GET laid. You passed her crap test, now you can screw
Kate9292 Posted October 23, 2013 Posted October 23, 2013 And after that, I decided that I really didn't like her that much. Recently, I decided to give her a shot because there's always been something there and I wanted to see how it went Oh so you don't really like her, but since she seems, as you put it, DTF, your gonna go ahead and try to have sex with her. Guys like you are nauseating...
vik1990 Posted October 23, 2013 Posted October 23, 2013 I think yes, She is DTF. Even if she said it just casually, means she is a horny girl. Reserved girls don't talk like that. Please answer mine
crederer Posted October 23, 2013 Posted October 23, 2013 Uh...I dunno if a girl wants to get with me she better not bring up her past sexual exploits. I have no problem with it but jeeze....doesn't mean I wanna hear about it. If you get with her be sure to wrap it up.
Ninjainpajamas Posted October 23, 2013 Posted October 23, 2013 Guys....this is 2013, the vagina doesn't have to be dangling on the end of the poll for you to get it, but if a girl is interested in you she's likely to be DTF, the girl hooked up with a guy last Halloween party...she might try to pull the conservative trick on you, but she's not exactly the virgin mary, she doesn't sound like the brightest girl either, the only thing holding you back is you sound like a nice/naive/inexperienced guy who over-thinks it. If things work out, then you can probably have it on a silver platter (just remember it might have made the rounds so watch what you eat)...just flirt, don't act overly interested and she'll think she's special, this girl has likely been interested for a long time and now you're just kind-of getting it.
melell Posted October 23, 2013 Posted October 23, 2013 I don't know if it is just me but I would never tell a guy I liked that I 'got' with someone after a party, unless I only considered him a really good friend. But you said she likes you, so that is just odd imo. Isn't the best thing to say to impress someone, or a good way to initiate sex.
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