"wifey to side chick"

[haleywright221]

I met my first love in high school (even though I didn't realize it was love then). He's been in and out of my life for about 7 years now. I'm not one to express my feelings, especially towards the opposite sex. Even though I never come out and tell him that I love him, he knows. During one of the times we weren't in each others lives, I began dating one of his friends. It was unintentional and it doesn't help that he's very popular and friends with every single person in our very small town. I'm currently living with that friend and we have a 3 year old daughter together but my ex still comes in and out of the picture. During a time when we were together he just disappears from the picture without a warning. It turns out that he moved to a different city with his new girlfriend that I knew nothing about because we were intimate and he never mentioned it. He also ended up having a daughter with her. Fast forward to today and he's back! While he was asleep one night, I went through his cell and seen text from someone in his phone named "Soon To Be" I also found pics of her. I'm very territorial and jealous and I didn't like what I found. My friends tell me I can't hold it against him because I'm basically doing the same to him. With him, I'm not sure how he feels about me. He always told me if I leave my boyfriend that it would be just me and him but I don't feel comfortable doing that especially when I don't know where I stand with him. My boyfriend is a great dad, my family loves him, and he basically supports me. If I knew my ex was serious I think I would actually do it. I don't know what I should do about my ex because I really love him and I want him in my life but he's known as a player and it's difficult for me to leave my guaranteed life.

[Assasda]

hahaha youre guaranteed life? You should get a job, work on your life

 

Thats all I got for you

[RespectfullyAlone]

So you're cheating on your baby daddy, with an ex you know is a player and disappears from your life for periods at a time, who also has a girlfriend and kid with you didn't know about? Did I miss anything.

 

What ever course of action you take with this ex, isn't going to end happily for you. Thus you deserve whatever outcome that comes your way. And it won't be a good outcome either. You sound like a horrible person, who is using in your own words a great dad to your daughter, a nice guy by the sounds of it, to put a roof over you head. I hope your current guy finds out and leaves you, and your ex cheats on you again and you've left with no one. The only person I would feel genuinely sorry for is your daughter.

 

Your very post mocks the hurt and pain that most dumpees on here are feeling because you are asking for advice on how to screw someone over. Someone who could very well be just like one of us. So to read your disgraceful actions in words is a kick to the guts. Go away, grow a conscience and gain some honesty.