hippetyhop Posted October 23, 2013 Share Posted October 23, 2013 Last night, I got a text from him. He sent a text saying hi, and he hopes I'm running. I didn't respond. This morning, not long after I know when he generally wakes up, he sent me another text. He apologized for contacting me last night, and he let me know he misses our friendship. He stated he understands if I don't contact him back. Ugh. Why. I was doing SO well with NC! Link to post Share on other sites
BruisedBNBroken Posted October 23, 2013 Share Posted October 23, 2013 No!!!! No no no no no. Is that enough No's?!! You are doing so well. Do not respond. Nothing good can come out of it. Take it from me, who was gone back to square one more times than I care to count. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author hippetyhop Posted October 23, 2013 Author Share Posted October 23, 2013 I know.. its hard. I thought he was done. Link to post Share on other sites
Saratonin Posted October 23, 2013 Share Posted October 23, 2013 How long have you been NC? Link to post Share on other sites
Author hippetyhop Posted October 23, 2013 Author Share Posted October 23, 2013 How long have you been NC? Since August 2nd. Link to post Share on other sites
cif Posted October 23, 2013 Share Posted October 23, 2013 Sounds like he does miss you just remember these are breadcrumbs. Now you need to teach him to respect the boundary you set- no contact. It's hard to ignore them i know... but they made their beds let them lie. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author hippetyhop Posted October 23, 2013 Author Share Posted October 23, 2013 Sounds like he does miss you just remember these are breadcrumbs. Now you need to teach him to respect the boundary you set- no contact. It's hard to ignore them i know... but they made their beds let them lie. I agree. He's probably done playing good boy husband for the past 10 weeks or so and tried to get back what he knew. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
awkward Posted October 24, 2013 Share Posted October 24, 2013 Can you block him? That would be a great gift to yourself. Don't let him back in. All you will end up with is more of the same having to do this ending again and maybe again. My advice is to block him at every turn and not allow him to hurt you again. Self preservation forthewin. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
hollyhillcourt Posted October 24, 2013 Share Posted October 24, 2013 Last night, I got a text from him. He sent a text saying hi, and he hopes I'm running. I didn't respond. This morning, not long after I know when he generally wakes up, he sent me another text. He apologized for contacting me last night, and he let me know he misses our friendship. He stated he understands if I don't contact him back. Ugh. Why. I was doing SO well with NC! What did you end up doing? It's so much harder if you let them back in. Mine still calls to check in. Engaging in it hasn't made my life easier. Try to resist. Link to post Share on other sites
Rollercoaster Rider Posted October 24, 2013 Share Posted October 24, 2013 Don't answer him.. you will only start the cycle all over again. Be strong and think of all you have accomplished!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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