FrankieFrank Posted December 21, 2013 Share Posted December 21, 2013 Obviously I know she was with people prior to our relationship, but she split up with me, would not get back with me and work it out, and began hanging around with some dude. Then she came back to me after like 7 weeks, and she ****ed him once. Do you see where I am coming from? And yes, this was a girl I thought I'd end up marrying. I had no intention of playing the field again. Many of you may think i'm making a big deal about it since we were not together, I understand this point, but it was not a mutual break up. I got kicked to the curb and it f*cking sucked. Have sex with someone, realize you don't want that after you get plowed from behind by him, then come knocking on my door after I begged and pleaded. Sounds like you were mistreated by her too. So, you mistreated her, she mistreated you and added having sex with someone else on top of that. What's the point of even getting back together? Love of your life? You don't have a reference for comparison to be sure, if she indeed is your first love. If I were you, I'd in fact stipulate explicitly that I will get back with her after I sleep with someone else too. Since you weren't back together at this point yet, that's actually a fair stipulation. And see how she reacted. Odds are she wouldn't be so understanding. Link to post Share on other sites
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