Am I....

[Love Sick]

I really need to have this answered right away. I work with this guy who I've liked for 8 months and now I think I am in love with him. The trouble is that I just started talking to him now. He knows I like him because a friend told him. When I first saw him I immediately felt lovesick. Most people wouldn't find him attractive, but I find him irresistible. Another problem is a mutual friend who likes me, but he doesn't know that I know about it. He seems jealous everytime I talk to the guy I like and I think that he might have lied to me about something that I asked him about. This guy that likes me has a girlfriend by the way, so I couldn't and wouldn't give a chance even if I could. What should I do? He just started talking to me now and I'm falling in love (I think) with him or maybe I've been in love with him all along? I don't know anymore. Please help me someone?!!?

[Thiamine]

I really need to have this answered right away. I work with this guy who I've liked for 8 months and now I think I am in love with him. The trouble is that I just started talking to him now. He knows I like him because a friend told him. When I first saw him I immediately felt lovesick. Most people wouldn't find him attractive, but I find him irresistible. Another problem is a mutual friend who likes me, but he doesn't know that I know about it. He seems jealous everytime I talk to the guy I like and I think that he might have lied to me about something that I asked him about. This guy that likes me has a girlfriend by the way, so I couldn't and wouldn't give a chance even if I could. What should I do? He just started talking to me now and I'm falling in love (I think) with him or maybe I've been in love with him all along? I don't know anymore. Please help me someone?!!?

I think you should go for the guy you've wanted for 8 months...the other guy needs to deal with his girlfriend, and you didn't like him before you knew he liked you right? Do you feel compelled to like him just because he likes you? I'd stick with the other guy. Best wishes!

 

Love,

 

Thiamine

[Juanita]

I really need to have this answered right away. I work with this guy who I've liked for 8 months and now I think I am in love with him. The trouble is that I just started talking to him now. He knows I like him because a friend told him. When I first saw him I immediately felt lovesick. Most people wouldn't find him

 

attractive,

but I find him irresistible. Another problem is a mutual friend who likes me, but he doesn't know that I know about it. He seems jealous everytime I talk to the guy I like and I think that he might have lied to me about something that I asked him about. This guy that likes me has a girlfriend by the way, so I couldn't and wouldn't give a chance even if I could. What should I do? He just started talking to me now and I'm falling in love (I think) with him or maybe I've been in love with him all along? I don't know anymore. Please

 

help me someone?!!?

If I was you I would tell the guy that likes you

 

that you know about his feelings for you then be

 

honest with him and let him know there is no chance.

 

Don't tell him you and him can stay friends because

 

it rarely stays that way. As far as the guy you

 

think you're in love with tell him the truth you

 

never know what could come of it. He may be

 

agreeable to going out on a date with you. Then take

 

from there. You may risk getting your heart broke

 

but we all experience that at least once in our

 

life. Go for it! What do you have to lose? If you

 

take my advice, I wish you good luck. I'll keep my

 

fingers crossed for you.