nolovefordaj792 Posted December 11, 2004 Share Posted December 11, 2004 Hi my name is J ive never had a gf and i met a girl which i really like but she doesn't like me no matter how hard i try i think its because my friends have told her stuff that isnt true about me behind my back ive tried telling her this and that they talk behind her back and they did it to me too but she just ignored me she told me just to forget about her but its really hard and its not i like im not trying to anybody know how i can do the right thing that will help everybody out? Link to post Share on other sites
SexiiPinkLadii Posted December 11, 2004 Share Posted December 11, 2004 Personally if your friends are talking about you behind your back..I'd say find new friends. I went thru that in high school and it's not worth it. I don't know you but I'm sure you don't deserve it. As for the girl, if she keeps saying that then find a new girl too. I know you might think that it sounds easier said then done, and it is, but it will be worth it in the long run. Link to post Share on other sites
Author nolovefordaj792 Posted December 11, 2004 Author Share Posted December 11, 2004 thanks but but hey can i get her out my mind trust me im trying with all my strength but its not working Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted December 11, 2004 Share Posted December 11, 2004 J, Well the obvious thing is to for real get new friends.. This girl.. She sounds immature. I don't even know if it's that she really doesn't like you, but she is more concerned with what other people think.. shows a lack of any substance within her. Personally I wouldn't even want someone like that to be my friend.. as you never know from one day to the next when she might turn on you based on what she has heard or others have told her. IMO this is more trouble than what it's worth.. but thats irrelavant. If you're hoping to somehow win her over then "play the game" stop trying to convince her that you're a good guy or that your friends are lying about you.. say nothing, do nothing.. the type of girls that she sounds like she is always seem to want what they deem to be unattainable (bleck I hate games) just a word of caution.. be careful what you wish for, you might just get it.. and I wonder if in the end of things it will have been worth all the he said, she said bullsh*t and the constant looking over your shoulder and knocking yourself out to stay in her good graces. Link to post Share on other sites
Author nolovefordaj792 Posted December 11, 2004 Author Share Posted December 11, 2004 thanks merin ive asked why she didnt like me and she didnt say nothing for awhile then she said i was weird i might also add im 15 and in hs Link to post Share on other sites
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