deathandtaxes Posted October 27, 2013 Share Posted October 27, 2013 I'm afraid that my worst fear will come true: that he indeed is attracted to women that are the total opposite of me and he's not making up these comments just to hurt me. But even if I "confront" him, I know he WON'T tell me the truth. Next time he does this though, I will tell him right there to stop, and something like "what are you trying to tell me?" very nonchalantly. Don't look at it as confronting him. Look at it as an honest conversation. OP, you could definitely use reading up on being assertive. Contrast that with being passive, passive-aggressive, and aggressive. This is your husband. If you can't tell him how you feel, what are you doing with him? 3 Link to post Share on other sites
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