Brownbeauty Posted October 28, 2013 Share Posted October 28, 2013 My boyfriend n I got into a huge arguement and i told him in a stern way to please let's stop arguing right now because were both upset and we don't wanna say things we don't mean. Instead of him being an adult about it he blows up at me telling me how he has to follow rules he starts smacking himself on the face and yelling all while the boys who are 6and10 are in their bedroom. I expressed to him that the boys are still awake please lets just stop. He took that as me not caring about his feelings. I'm so tired of this bull****. I'm alwaysadw out to be the bad person when all I'm trying to do is calm things down before it escalates. Am I wrong? Am I the one being controlling? :confused::confused::confused: Link to post Share on other sites
Toddbt12y1 Posted October 28, 2013 Share Posted October 28, 2013 I don't blame you for not wanting to fight, yell or whatever in front of your kids. Some people do not calm down on words alone, this only irritates them further. Time calms them down. He sounds like a big baby. If you feel like you are overburdened from this relationship with him...you should end it. You shouldn't have to feel like the badguy for trying to calm him down. This seems so very reoccurring. I'd reconsider this relationship, if it hurts you so much. Link to post Share on other sites
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