LaceyFace Posted October 29, 2013 Share Posted October 29, 2013 Does your MM or MW ever mention you're more insecure now then you were in the beginning?! Link to post Share on other sites
AutumnMoon Posted October 29, 2013 Share Posted October 29, 2013 Does your MM or MW ever mention you're more insecure now then you were in the beginning?! He hasn't mentioned it. But I for sure became a lot more insecure around him towards the middle of the affair after the initial, drunk in love attention started to die down. Link to post Share on other sites
goodyblue Posted October 29, 2013 Share Posted October 29, 2013 The month after he left his marriage was when I was most insecure. Since then things have been good. Link to post Share on other sites
C00kie Posted October 29, 2013 Share Posted October 29, 2013 Does your MM or MW ever mention you're more insecure now then you were in the beginning?! He has never told me so, but this very morning I was thinking to myself how different I've become. When we met, the first months, I was an understanding, happy, easy going person, someone great to be with. I wouldn't expect much or ask for much. As time went buy and he didn't leave, I grew impatient and now I don't recognise myseld. The easy going person that I was before, with him...has dissapeared. Now I always have this urge to ask him what's going on, make lots of questions, wonder and rethink and overanalyse everything. I think it's normal, not out fault. People grow tired. We're flesh and bone too, but it's sad to to this to ourselves. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author LaceyFace Posted October 29, 2013 Author Share Posted October 29, 2013 He has never told me so, but this very morning I was thinking to myself how different I've become. When we met, the first months, I was an understanding, happy, easy going person, someone great to be with. I wouldn't expect much or ask for much. As time went buy and he didn't leave, I grew impatient and now I don't recognise myseld. The easy going person that I was before, with him...has dissapeared. Now I always have this urge to ask him what's going on, make lots of questions, wonder and rethink and overanalyse everything. I think it's normal, not out fault. People grow tired. We're flesh and bone too, but it's sad to to this to ourselves. I couldn't have said this better myself. So true. Link to post Share on other sites
LilGirlandOW Posted October 29, 2013 Share Posted October 29, 2013 I'm most insecure now, in this "transition" phase, I told him I'm feeling like this & he's been trying extra hard to make me feel loved and secure. It's been good Link to post Share on other sites
solostand Posted October 30, 2013 Share Posted October 30, 2013 I got VERY insecure last week when he suddenly stopped calling. He calls every day faithfully. After three days of frantically throwing my phone at the wall every time it rang and it wasn't him, I remembered something - that he had been vomiting and really sick the last time I spoke to him. So I phoned the hospital and he was there! Bowel blockage. I have had several bowel blockages myself and know how very sick they make you. I marched right over to the hospital and there he was - tube in his nose into his stomach. He said he was so happy I found him because he had no cell phone and couldn't get out of bed and was trying to come up with a way to reach me. He knows I flip and panic when I don't hear from him. I have been spending every morning with him in the hospital, chatting and laughing. I've now seen him at his worst I guess, and that was ok. He actually had the audacity to say something about my hair yesterday (joking) and I said "Listen mister with a tube down your nose sucking BILE from your stomach, in your johnny shirt with barf-stained socks, you are not one to talk." Still, I HATE the feeling of being left hanging, wondering what the hell happened and feeling helpless. In other news, my cell phone rang and he acted all squirrely. The next day he raised it and said "You seem to get a lot of secret phone calls. You must be pretty popular." so HE was feeling insecure too. Link to post Share on other sites
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