Toxic_kitten Posted October 30, 2013 Share Posted October 30, 2013 Ok...idk where to start....I guess I could start when I was in junior year of high school. In junior year, I've met this guy who he would started to play with my hair a lot in chemistry class everyday. For me, I thought it was just a friendly approach. As the year went by, he and I became good friends. But deep down, I fell in love with him. So, he would give me hints about his feelings and would hug me ALOT like everyday. Sometimes he would kiss me on cheek and forehead but not that much....I finally had the courage to tell him how I feel in a note (yeah worst approach on that) for an Easter present I gave him. I texted him on that day if he liked the gift and he said yes but he only like me as a friend (whomp) .On the side note, I gave him random presents like for Christmas and Easter. Sometimes when he is upset about his personal life, I cheer him up with hugs and jokes. He was thankful. Ok..fast forwarding...next year (senior) he has a gf now and he was really distance from me...idk why but I try to ask him about it but he gets mad at me and told me that I'm very annoying about it (my bad habit about handling this is texting him 24/7 but I stopped) during senior year was tough to try and be good friends again but with his "new" gf (when I say new I mean not very nice) now he blocked everyone in high school including me. I was feeling sad and yet guilty for our friendship that was about the break... So...towards graduation, I texted him again to see how he was doing but his gf used his phone to text me. She said that I was being annoying to him and that he does not want to do anything with me...I felt sad and of course guilty cuz I may have be annoying him and pushing our friendship without knowing it. During the summer, I gave him like two months to let him cool off but he still mention about the situation. So I right now I am a college student and I of course still head over heels like this guy...I haven't contact him since the summer which was 3 months and now idk what else to think about. The reason why I can't just move on from him is because he was the first guy that I REALLY like and first time I ever care about him. Here is my questions: 1) does he actually had a crush on me in high school?? Cuz I had some theories that he might but idk 2) will this friendship be fix?? If so...how?? I was confused for a long time and I would appreciated if there is a solution...if not I'm fine with it. Sorry that is was so long, I just had this problem for a long time and I just want to put it out here. If u guys finish reading it, I would be appreciated...thanks ^_^ Link to post Share on other sites
Assasda Posted October 30, 2013 Share Posted October 30, 2013 I think that its a loss. Move on, check out other dudes. Sorry this happened, you were just late to getting to him, and thats what happens Link to post Share on other sites
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