BC1980 Posted November 9, 2013 Share Posted November 9, 2013 Your experience is exactly why confused people should be left alone. They are not reliable, and it often ends with hurt on the other end. I've lived through a confused ex, and it's emotionally stressful to say the least. The best thing you can do is to protect yourself and stay away from her. You really want to see the best in them and hope it can be in good terms, but it's just a mess when feelings and a long history are involved. Link to post Share on other sites
Mariposa10 Posted November 9, 2013 Share Posted November 9, 2013 Stop, stop, stop over-analyzing everything!! I didn't even read the third little paragraph, because of all this has to stop! I was with my ex for many years, so I know how that feels. However, there comes a time when we have to start moving on. Sounds like you were doing everything right until she decided to come back. I would advise you to change your number and block her and the new guy from FB or whatever you're getting all that info from. Stop torturing yourself, please. Come vent here! Link to post Share on other sites
yorkie Posted November 9, 2013 Share Posted November 9, 2013 its hard it really is but we all need to move on im in the same boat i feel like i need to vent everyday and sounds like you do to. lets all do it together! we need buddies to support us so let make a pack and work together to forget these people that ruin our lives! Link to post Share on other sites
melell Posted November 9, 2013 Share Posted November 9, 2013 I get your frustration. I am sure though, you could look around at plenty off people and what they are doing and think to your self 'what the f***'. Eventually when you are free of this you are going to see that she is just another person f***ing around not knowing what she is doing. Once you move on those flaws are going to become abundantly clear- so much so that you won't even indulge the thought of her. Time time time!!! Stop think about her, give it more time. And stop seeing her- unless you want even more frustration. If I were you, I would focus on introspection, and try to grow into a person who doesn't flight about from one thing to the next, try to be the person that can see past it! Link to post Share on other sites
j.gman Posted November 11, 2013 Share Posted November 11, 2013 She told you to leave her some time alone and keep your distance. You should respect her opinion and do that. Link to post Share on other sites
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