Chris715 Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 Phoe, you may be feeling down about all of this, but all I can say is don't worry about it. First things first, you're VERY pretty, which obviously never hurt a girl in the dating world. And from all your posts I see around the forums you have a great personality with a lot to offer someone, now it's just the matter of finding them. Could you be coming on too strong with the approaches you're doing? I've been guilty of this in this past in pursuing women and it's been a big turnoff for them, and it definitely goes both ways with a lot of guys getting turned off if a women pushes too hard. Believe me I know the feeling of getting burnt out on meeting people, pursuing people, etc. when you feel like it's getting you nowhere. That's pretty much where I am at the moment too, trying to move past my ex by meeting someone new. If you feel like you really need a break I say take one through the holiday season and just meet people in that time with zero expectations, and if anything happens then it happens. And if you decide to come out firing at the start of the new year I'd say that's the perfect time to start! Link to post Share on other sites
AShogunNamedMarcus Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 It might be just me, but I like girls who are a little reserved. It attracts me and I want to know more about them. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Phoe Posted November 3, 2013 Author Share Posted November 3, 2013 I think my obvious interest has definitely backfired. I put out multiple attempts tonight. Big party. Now home alone. Thought I was doing well but then I lost a game of beer pong and things pretty much went south. It's like I dropped the ball but I haven't played in years. I kept that sh** alive for a long while. Ughhh. Link to post Share on other sites
Valen Posted November 3, 2013 Share Posted November 3, 2013 I think my obvious interest has definitely backfired. I put out multiple attempts tonight. Big party. Now home alone. Thought I was doing well but then I lost a game of beer pong and things pretty much went south. It's like I dropped the ball but I haven't played in years. I kept that sh** alive for a long while. Ughhh. You serious? No guys interested? I can't believe it... I think you are pulling our legs. How about trying the shy girl approach next time? Wear some dorky glasses too. I always fall for those types. Link to post Share on other sites
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