TheNickolas Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 So, a while a go I started talking with this older boy. He lives in the city, and I live a few hours away. I'm 17 and he's 22. We've never met, but i find him very interesting. He is very intelligent and very handsome. We've been Snapchatting and talking on Facebook like everyday literally through out the whole day. He keeps telling jokes about me and that I'm just a kid. I know he's older but I don't really care. I'm in the city for 16 days and we have planned to go have a coffee some time soon. He asked me a few hours a go to join him at a dress-up birthdayparty, but I'm babysitting my uncle's son. What does he want? What do I do? Link to post Share on other sites
CherryT Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 Be careful and meet him in a public place. You don't know 100% who he is until you actually meet him in person. Boys that age tend to look out for themselves and girls can get caught up and be taken advantage of. He could want a number of things. He mentioned you were just a kid, but likely senses that you are starting to get a crush on him. He's the older guy and inviting you to a party. Maybe there's drinking? I'm not saying he's a bad guy, no one knows that. You don't know that until you meet up with him. But keep in mind that males that age tend to look out for themselves and what they want. If they want a relationship, they'll get it. If they just want to party and take advantage of girls, they'll do that too. I've seen it so many times when my friends were in college. Become a friend, in person. And if there is more than that (whether he just wants something casual or start something serious) you'll start to see it. Link to post Share on other sites
justwhoiam Posted November 3, 2013 Share Posted November 3, 2013 i find him very interesting. He is very intelligent and very handsome. We've been Snapchatting and talking on Facebook like everyday literally through out the whole day. He keeps telling jokes about me and that I'm just a kid. I know he's older but I don't really care. You don't care in what way? What does he want? What do YOU want? Because you gave a rave description of this guy and you even added he's older but you "don't really care". What are you looking for? He surely noticed you are drooling over him. Try not to give that away in person. What do I do? Skip the party and meet up at a café like in your original plans. Link to post Share on other sites
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