Gingerninja Posted December 14, 2004 Share Posted December 14, 2004 Im not sure where to begin, but if this isnt enough information let me know and i'll post what you need. Here goes: I am part of a close knit of friends (There is only two blokes in a group of about 8 or 9 of us - all 17/18 years old). Recently, i have become better friends with a girl from this group and we text each other a lot, chat, go out a lot (in a whole group) and i have been going round her house quite a bit aswell. Now fairly recently (Within a month or so) she seems to be showing a lot more interest in me. I was round her house today, and she was giving me signs that she likes me such as: touching my arm (does playing a tune on my arm a number of times, laying all over me, and poking my stomach when i was sorting out my belt with my shirt up count as an attraction thing?), she complimented me (I really like your belt), she asks me questions (stuff like how was your day etc, obviously nothing too inquisitive cos we pretty much know most about each other anyway now), she has asked to make future plans (Specifically shopping in a couple of days - she asked me) and major eye contact. My predicament comes because a couple of weeks ago she got a boyfriend. Now this seemed to me to put her out of reach, but when i first asked her about him she said she wasnt sure if it was what she wanted and she still seems a bit wary and uneasy when talking about their relationship. What i would like to know, and hopefully you guys can answer: Is this girl interested in me or are we just good friends? Link to post Share on other sites
hART Posted December 16, 2004 Share Posted December 16, 2004 It doesn't matter if she is interested in you. She is part of your circle of friends, she has a boyfriend and is someone you don't want to lose as a friend. Love comes and goes, but friends last forever. Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted December 16, 2004 Share Posted December 16, 2004 Does she act that way with other male friends, or just you? If she is not one of those 'natural flirts' and has singled you out with this behavior, then yes - its a pretty good assumption that she is interested. The thing to remember here is that you two were hitting it off well, and it looked like it was going to become more - but she chose someone else as a boyfriend, regardless of that. If you want to date her, then you will have to make it clear that you'll date her - but not as long as she is someone else's girlfriend. If she only wants to see you in the context of cheating on someone else, then its really not worth it (unless you are not bothered by that). Is her boyfriend the other guy in this group of friends? That would be bad. Link to post Share on other sites
Gingerninja106 Posted December 16, 2004 Share Posted December 16, 2004 Sorry i forgot to say. No he is just a guy i know through school, more of an acquitance i would chat to than a friend really. She doesnt show this kind of affection to other guys no, from what i can see its just me she does it with. She's not the kind of girl to cheat (shes very clear on what she thinks of people who do though!) What i should have said was their friendship was just building as they started going out, so im thinking (as i have experienced in the past) it was merely the blooming of a good friendship that has brought them into a relationship. I would never make a move with this girl while she is with someone, so i am going to wait and see how things turn out. Link to post Share on other sites
hART Posted December 16, 2004 Share Posted December 16, 2004 You seem to be very down to earth. If it is meant to work out, it will. I wish you the best of luck. Link to post Share on other sites
Gingerninja106 Posted December 16, 2004 Share Posted December 16, 2004 Thanks Yeah, i too believe in fate (im assuming thats what you mean) so if its meant to be, it will be Link to post Share on other sites
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