BBB08 Posted December 15, 2004 Share Posted December 15, 2004 Alright here's the deal, I've read the idea of the whole contact thing and it has worked. I'd block my ex on messenger and when I unblock there she is being friendlly. So I be friendlly back, nothing personal, nothing bout the past just current events and mostly jokes. Now I know NO CONTACT is great but my ex has my sister on her messenger. So when I block her and dont have any contact for certain number of day's. She'll talk to my sister. We broke up in May cuz of bad timing school and stubborness. But has anyone else gone through this.... it feels like she's sort of checking up on me just by talking with my sister. They do homework together on the computer. It's really confusing. Another question is when you break up with someone why would you want to still talk to the ex's sister or brother. They weren't that close when we were dating, they talked and were nice to each other, but it seems she's become closer with my sister during this break up, then when we were BF and GF... CONFUUUSED??? And now my sister says that she wants to come down and visit "her" It was a long distance relationship!! WTF Link to post Share on other sites
missopinionated Posted January 1, 2005 Share Posted January 1, 2005 Unless you and your sister are conjoined twins sharing one brain, your sister is a person separate from you. She's allowed to talk to whomever she wishes. What difference does it make to you whom your sister speaks to on line? Ask her not to discuss your life with your X and then move on. If you ask her to do that, remember you're not allowed to ask her for information about your X. Play fair if you're setting the rules. Link to post Share on other sites
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