Riou Posted November 5, 2013 Share Posted November 5, 2013 Yeah, some exes are really crazy and do all sorts of horrible vindictive things to 'get even'. In May this year it was reported in the news that a woman in America was being charged for making false police reports.... she was bitter about being dumped so she set up a fake facebook account under her ex-boyfriend's name and through this fake account sent HER OWN ACCOUNT heaps of threatening nasty messages, pretending that they were from him. she then went to the police and reported him, saying that he was sending her threatening messages. It took the police about two seconds to track the messages, realise that she sent them to herself, and she got charged with filing a false police report. Nothing quite that drastic has happened to me but much lesser things have - one ex who dumped me kept sending me breadcrumbs trying to get a reaction out of me and I ignored them for ages but I finally got sick of it and responded and she was all like "OMG! It is OVER! Why can't you just accept that and leave me alone???" - the sad thing is that, I reckon, in her own mind she honestly believed that I was 'hassling her' and not the other way around. people can make up all kinds of excuses in their minds. this ex sounds like drama, just block her. That was one stupid woman,referring to both the news and your ex. My ex did something similar.She kept thinking i want to get back with her and felt the need to keep repeating that she's the dumper so she's not bitter,it was as though she felt powerless and needed to self assure. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ryan52 Posted November 5, 2013 Author Share Posted November 5, 2013 That was one stupid woman,referring to both the news and your ex. My ex did something similar.She kept thinking i want to get back with her and felt the need to keep repeating that she's the dumper so she's not bitter,it was as though she felt powerless and needed to self assure. Ya my ex thinks I harassed her after she tried to apologize for hurting me but in the same sentence she told me her and her current bf have something so special she can't explain....Sorry for hurting you, I never meant to hurt you but we have something so special I can't explain. I told her that I didn't need to hear that and that's when she thought I harassed her. And the first time she tried to apologize months earlier, it was a half a$$ apology over text and said I can not reply because it will make things complicated. It's like they try to make drama for some reason. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ryan52 Posted November 6, 2013 Author Share Posted November 6, 2013 Ya my ex thinks I harassed her after she tried to apologize for hurting me but in the same sentence she told me her and her current bf have something so special she can't explain....Sorry for hurting you, I never meant to hurt you but we have something so special I can't explain. I told her that I didn't need to hear that and that's when she thought I harassed her. And the first time she tried to apologize months earlier, it was a half a$$ apology over text and said I can not reply because it will make things complicated. It's like they try to make drama for some reason. So I decided not to block her and pretend nothing happened. I do not know what she wants but obviously she thought of me in a way which led to her unblocking me randomly. She has not contacted me and I do not plan on initiating the contact. There has to be a reason after 3 Months of NC she randomly decides to unblock me considering she wanted me out of her life for good. Her words. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
xUnknown Posted November 6, 2013 Share Posted November 6, 2013 So I decided not to block her and pretend nothing happened. I do not know what she wants but obviously she thought of me in a way which led to her unblocking me randomly. She has not contacted me and I do not plan on initiating the contact. There has to be a reason after 3 Months of NC she randomly decides to unblock me considering she wanted me out of her life for good. Her words. As mentioned earlier. This is exactly what I would have done. Sure, you're questioning it - which shows you still care. If you didn't care (and what you are trying to show her is that you don't) is to not even acknowledge that you noticed it or given her the time of day to think or do anything about it. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ryan52 Posted November 24, 2013 Author Share Posted November 24, 2013 So after about 2 weeks of being unblocked, she randomly blocked me again. I did not contact her in any way nor did I try. I think she unblocked me originally when she saw a picture of a mutual friend, me and some random girl at a bar. But what would make an ex randomly reblock you on facebook if you didn't try and contact her? The only thing I can think of is that she still has a problem with something and that she isn't over me. Even though she has a boyfriend of 8 months and my ex and I haven't spoken in 4. If she didn't care about me, she would have originally left me blocked, or when she unblocked me, she wouldn't have a reason to reblock me. Link to post Share on other sites
Haydn Posted November 24, 2013 Share Posted November 24, 2013 Oh if we only knew! She does these things for herself! What are you doing for yourself apart from seeing things that are not there. NC. NC. If she wants you she will break down the door, until that moment live your live friend. Link to post Share on other sites
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