jesusfist Posted December 15, 2004 Share Posted December 15, 2004 Usually i never open up to anyone at all, nor do i be my true self when i'm out with friends. My social life wasnt the greatest and i really had no hope of meeting a girl who i could relate to due to previous events or become close to. This all added together with a few other things happening in my life and was causing me to be depressed. During this state i went away with friends on a holiday but before i left my good friend gave a few words of advice, quite simple but "just be yourself and things will work". during this holiday i met a girl and something clicked i stopped being crap and worrying about everything forgot about being shy etc, it was a great experience and i feel permanantly changed. My self esteem and the way i now view myself is much greater than before, i dont see myself as ugly or shy but quite the opposite. i told this person all about myself the first day we met, yes its odd but hey, my love for soul music, chick movies and things usually not ascioated with young macho try hard guys lol and she got to know me. So around her i could be myself without worry of being judged. the time we spent together was awsome, we watched the sunrise and i just held her and other things that will remain my buisness . i'm not sure about the purpose of this post, maybe it'll give others hope or help them to be themselves. remember people think less and chill out Link to post Share on other sites
tattoomytoe Posted December 15, 2004 Share Posted December 15, 2004 Good for You! Isn't it nice to relax and be you! Link to post Share on other sites
sinkerswim Posted December 15, 2004 Share Posted December 15, 2004 thats good to hear! I totally need to chill out and RELAX.... Link to post Share on other sites
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