Mishy7887 Posted November 6, 2013 Share Posted November 6, 2013 My best friend, let's call him Vince, he has known this girl for about 2 years. They met in school, it started off as friends then got to being sexual. School ended and they both had to go back home. They kept in contact over the phone and email. She got married a year back. She, let's call her Janet, didn't talk to Vince for 3 months. Janet told Vince that she married her H just as an deal for his kids to get medical care they needed for sicknesses. 2 months into the marriage she lost her job that was providing health care for the family. She has now been married for over a year. Last week Vince went to a convention and Janet flew out to see him. They drove to her parents house and stayed the night. They hung out at her parents house and Vince slept down stairs and Janet slept in her old room. Janet wanted to stay and sleep on the couch but went upstairs. They then both went to the convention together and stayed the night in a hotel for 2 nights. They stayed in the same bed and obviously one thing led to another. Janet told Vince that she told her husband all about their past and that her husband was ok with them staying in the same room. Janet has been telling Vince how she wants to be with him and all the things they wanna do. She then went home and still talks to every day. But now she is trying to keep them a secret from her husband so that he does get Vince in trouble. Vince wants me to tell him what to so. Any ideas what to tell him? Link to post Share on other sites
lindsay1990 Posted November 6, 2013 Share Posted November 6, 2013 Tell him that this Janet woman is bad news. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
down hearted Posted November 6, 2013 Share Posted November 6, 2013 (edited) janet is starting a whole lot of drama, he should stop contacting her and not respond her messages, he should tell her "when you are divorced, then we'll talk otherwise am not going to be something on the side when your bored, i want commitment, and i want a relationship, otherwise this has to end now" But it is likely he will still pursue her because the heart wants what they can't have, and vince wants janet but she is taken and married, regardless of her reasons for marrying she agreed to be committed to her husband who am sure was duped in been married by janet, she is definitely bad news, married for interest and is even cheating on her poor husband very wrong on so many levels. she already cheated so her marriage is going to be one rocky ride because eventually sooner or later the truth comes out and her husband sooner or later will find out one way or another. No matter how hard you try to hide a secret specially an affair it will eventually come to light. Edited November 6, 2013 by down hearted Link to post Share on other sites
nishtha Posted November 7, 2013 Share Posted November 7, 2013 You tell him this is not love this is only attraction. Link to post Share on other sites
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