Author curtsnokc Posted November 6, 2013 Author Share Posted November 6, 2013 There's an old movie about this. The man gently manipulates his woman into getting a threesome. Once that happens, however, it becomes apparent she is REALLY into it and starts doing it all the time. In the end, the guy regretted getting his wife to do a threesome with another woman, and it leaves the viewer with a sly woman asking the man about how it would be good for them to add another man to the bedroom. Moral of the story: Be careful what you wish for. Do you remember the name of the movie? I was having that feeling in my gut last few days. Maybe my head caught up to my other head =) 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author curtsnokc Posted November 6, 2013 Author Share Posted November 6, 2013 There's an old movie about this. The man gently manipulates his woman into getting a threesome. Once that happens, however, it becomes apparent she is REALLY into it and starts doing it all the time. In the end, the guy regretted getting his wife to do a threesome with another woman, and it leaves the viewer with a sly woman asking the man about how it would be good for them to add another man to the bedroom. EDIT: Link to movie: The Sex Monster (1999) - IMDb Moral of the story: Be careful what you wish for. That movie looks good! Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
tlegend Posted November 6, 2013 Share Posted November 6, 2013 Do you remember the name of the movie? I was having that feeling in my gut last few days. Maybe my head caught up to my other head =) Edited my post Link to post Share on other sites
pteromom Posted November 6, 2013 Share Posted November 6, 2013 Every couple I have ever met who tried a threesome, it was the husband's idea. And yep, all of them I know divorced as well. Not saying that there aren't successful open relationships, but it takes two people with the same mindset and the ability to create very strong boundaries for themselves. I had one friend who had a MMF fantasy and decided to make it reality with his wife and sure enough, she left him for the third party. Another guy dreamed of an open marriage. He finally convinced his wife, agreeing that they could both go out and have sex with whoever they wanted. So the wife had a few ONS.... the husband couldn't find anyone to have sex with him. After about a month, the wife "fell in love" with one of her flings and left. It's just NEVER a good idea. Report back on how your wife likes the cabin. That's a good idea, and I am sure she will love it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ascendotum Posted November 7, 2013 Share Posted November 7, 2013 First this woman said she was willing to do this for money, then she said she wasn't. This is a business transaction, there is no room for "being a bitch" . This is not about her, its about you and your wife. Spot on. This is exactly what I was thinking. You are hiring this other women. This is your (and I'd like to really think its your wife's to some extent as well) fantasy. You call the shots on what you want not what this other bisexual for $ woman wants. Just tell her what she wants does not fit in with you & your wife's requirements. Forget her, and just go back out to the market to find another woman (if you two are still inclined). It just might be a little tricky now that her point of contact is with your wife who it seems she is trying to form a friendship with. Link to post Share on other sites
Maxtor Posted November 7, 2013 Share Posted November 7, 2013 I would recommend you NOT doing it. Fantasies are cool, but once its over, you will probably feel empty. I used to fantasise this with one ex of mine, but was only that, only words, and we used a doll to fullfill it. It was nice, but each time it was over i was like "thank god, it was just in our heads". I would never ever share a gf of mine. Link to post Share on other sites
crederer Posted November 7, 2013 Share Posted November 7, 2013 Well....you say you're in the interview stage. Sounds to me, even if you want to go forward with this thing, that this particular woman failed the interview. Link to post Share on other sites
AShogunNamedMarcus Posted November 9, 2013 Share Posted November 9, 2013 A threesome can be fun if it's just friends partying with no emotional attachments. I wouldn't trust a stranger in my bedroom, with someone I love. Too many risks. Link to post Share on other sites
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