divorce in pa

[philadivorce]

me and my wife are going through a divorce, we have been seperated for more then 2 yrs. it started back in june of 13, i am paying support because i make more money (started making more after she left me) i am paying for a loan attached to the home and some of her healthcare. i added her to my healthcare at another job because mine was better then hers but i since then left that job and she wasn't on my new insurance. since she left the house i stayed in the house and pay all the bills for the house (other then the other loan on the house since it came out of her account) i am on her bank account but have no access to it.

 

i have not had contact with her since she left. so now im paying support, the mortgage on the house, all the bills for the house, the other loan on the house and half of her healthcare. we were married a little under 4 yrs before she left. i want the divorce over but it seems her and her lawyer dont want it over since im paying her almost 1000.00 a month. its hard paying that amount a month. my lawyer did file paper work for a 2 yr serperation divorce but im not sure what happens after this. to me i think she see's me as a way to have spending money when she has no house bills and so on now where she is living.

 

anyone know how to make this go fast or what will happen?

[worldgonewrong]

WTF?

Get a lawyer, dude, and and file the paperwork with the court.

You're letting her & her lawyer have a field day, unnecessarily so.

[philadivorce]

i have a lawyer.. this is all court ordered.. what i dont get is because she left how i have to pay for all of the house and the mortgage contract and second mortgage contract don't mean a thing

[d0nnivain]

The best person to ask for advice about your divorce is your lawyer. Sadly most courts are understaffed . . . budget cuts you know . . . & it drags these things out.

 

Good luck.