Big Time Trust Issues

[justwhoiam]

the individual I chatted with the other day behaved so much like my ex girlfriend

"YOU" made yourself available to this person.

 

they were quite good at defaming me and making me out to be the bad guy

"YOU" shared personal information with them when you should have not! Why would you share personal details with a stranger online? Telling them about your ex??

 

I have now interacted with 2 individuals who behave exactly the same way

And keep doing it! I can understand your naivety the first time, but the second one?! You are deliberately exposing yourself to such harassment.

[Bearx]

I've had this happen to me with a girl who is a friend. And I'm a girl myself!! She treated me like I was her Husband or something likewise. Constantly texting me, asking what I'm doing, etc. She even went to the point of going insane when I was unable to text her back, saying that, "Where are you, you never text me! I hate you. Look, I'm getting really angry, why don't you text me? Don't talk to me at school". It made me laugh when I was able to look at the text. At the end, I broke it off with her. Mostly cause she annoys me and she went to the point of threatening me. "Watch on Monday, you never know what I can do, I can do anything".

 

BUT ANYWAYS!!

 

I think your SO has insecurities. She believes that you'll leave or cheat on her whether it's because of her appearance, personality, wealth, health etc. I also think that she thinks that she's not good enough for you, so she's assuming that you'll leave her for someone better. Or even cheat on her.

 

Here's what you should do:

 

Reassurance and communication is the key my friend. Make her feel like she's one in a million. Most girls want to be treated like their precious and fragile. So, don't get angry as soon as she suggests that you'll cheat on her. She'll break and get upset. Also, it'll be like you're trying to cover something up. Talk it out slowly and sweetly. Say you love her. You don't need to give a massive speech of the feelings you have for her. The most smallest words can make the greatest effects and leave the best impressions.

 

I hope you the best of luck for your relationship.