I made a big mistake

[cmalice]

I dated a Macy for 4 years and i made a huge mistake of cheating on her about 5 months ago. She left me and tried to talk to me a few times during that five months but just couldn't get over what i had done. Eventually she started talking to this guy she has been intimate with before and they slept together. Now she has come back into my life and i know i was the one who made the mistake, but i can't seem to get over the fact she slept with this guy. I'm afraid she has feelings for him i'm getting in the middle of something. They don't talk but it still scares me and she is starting to get annoyed. I love this girl a lot and i would love to have a future with her. I just don't know what to do here.

[Kate9292]

You cheated on her.

 

She didn't cheat on you. She was with another guy while you two were broken up. Because of something you did.

 

You don't have an argument here. And if you don't trust her, leave her alone to find someone better for her.

[tlegend]

I dated a Macy for 4 years and i made a huge mistake of cheating on her about 5 months ago. She left me and tried to talk to me a few times during that five months but just couldn't get over what i had done. Eventually she started talking to this guy she has been intimate with before and they slept together. Now she has come back into my life and i know i was the one who made the mistake, but i can't seem to get over the fact she slept with this guy. I'm afraid she has feelings for him i'm getting in the middle of something. They don't talk but it still scares me and she is starting to get annoyed. I love this girl a lot and i would love to have a future with her. I just don't know what to do here.

 

You are projecting your own fears and insecurities on her.

 

You need to stop.

 

She didn't cheat on you. You cheated on her.

 

Leave this poor woman alone or change yourself so you can be with her. Those are your only 2 options.