Sex Question

[Jeffrey]

My gf wants me to have sex with her when she has her period, unprotected sex - that was she said she is not going to get pregnant, and we can avoid the contraceptive methods. Now, why would she want that? I am willing to try, but is not there going to be a lot of blood all over the place, and I know she is clean, but is there any way I can catch a disease. She is 100% clean, however I want to make sure that PERIOD blood is safe if it comes in contact with my private part. Any suggestions? DO women enjoy it while menstruating? and how much mess should I expect?

 

Thanks

 

I know it is a weird question, but I am curious, and interested to try

[Yumi]

Women don't really bleed THAT much during "that time of the month" it's not like having an open wound or anything.... look at the size on a tampon, it's pretty small! On a normal day for a normal women, one of those lasts 4-8 HOURS... that's much longer than you'd take for sex, unless you've got an ungodly amount of stamina!

 

If she's been tested and you know that she doesn't have any STDs, there's no way you can get one... but if she does have STDs (or if you do) it can be transmitted when she's having her period.

 

Also, you should know, that while the chances of pregnancy are relatively slim during her period, it is not 100% guaranteed that she won't get pregnant. If she wants the feel of sex without a condom, I would suggest that she get on the pill.

[Noworries]

O.K someone else has answered the diseases query so I'll focus on your other curiosities. My bf got really horny one night but I had my period and was not willing to do anything. However, he persisted and gradually my clothes came off, as he made me feel very comfortable about it. My main hangup was just the fact of odour and also I thought guys found it absolutely disgusting. He had no problems with it, and in fact was quite matter of fact about it, just getting a towel to put over the sheets and using a condom. You say yr gf wants no condom. We used one for two reasons, one: a period is not effective contraception nor safe against diseases as per normal, and two: my bf wasnt really into having blood all over his penis.

 

So to answer two of yr questions. Is there much mess? No there wasnt because the blood is very minimal anyway and we used a condom so most of it ended up all over that. However, there was blood on the towel so I'd advise using one just in case. Maybe you could do it in the shower if you're that worried about mess. And do girls enjoy it at that time? Well, in my case, like I said, the main reason why I never considered it earlier was because I thought a guy would find it disgusting. You obviously don't and your gf obviously doesnt even consider this, so go for it. We girls enjoy the sex just as much, with or without period (as long as we're comfortable with the idea). The main difference physically for me was that it was a bit more comfortable as the blood acted as a lubricant. Other than that, I'm also one of these girls that feel more horny during and around the time of their period so thats an obvious plus!