bulls42 Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 I was in a relationship for 6 years with a girl but I cheated countless times because I guess I couldn't say no to other girls and we finally broke up in Feb. She found someone right away and I've dated about 6 girls but still can't find anything She called me in summer and said I miss you and love you, asked me out to pizza and movie, while she was with her new boyfriend, but I didn't answer her call, she got mad at me never talked to me again Now I met some girl named Dani but I texted too much and probably scared her away by asking her to be my gf after two dates but she was looking for a bf too so i figure ask but now she won't talk to me I feel alone but since I've been with so many women I just want a relationship I've been with roughly 25-30 women and I'm 28 but just feel like I can't get anyone now and feel my confidence slipping I don't consider myself a bad looking guy and have a lot of great qualities (state job, car, expensive apartment, good at sports (soccer, bball), family shore house, a lot of different friends from north and south jersey) Yet, for the first time since I was 15, I am having a hard time finding someone Now I have sex dreams about my ex gf, I mean the sex was great and fun, but just couldn't stay together because of personality differences I was with a girl last night that I work with and although we had sex and have been seeing each other I just don't feel the same about her as she feels for me Idk I'm not complaining or whining, I just feel kinda lost after being in a 6 year relationship with someone for so long Any advice from anyone would be appreciated....
Nyclovin Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 You never cared about her and now she doesn't care about you . Seems like it all worked out for the best . Try not cheating on the next one and see where that takes you . 2
Philosoraptor Posted November 12, 2013 Posted November 12, 2013 I'd suggest spending some time single to get over your inability to be alone. If you've been with that many women, cheated a ton, and still are "losing your confidence" then you need to find a way to establish yourself before trying to start another relationship. Your relationships are failing due to your own internal issues. 2
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