Pjclarke2013 Posted November 13, 2013 Share Posted November 13, 2013 Hi, Yesterday, my wife told me our marriage was over after I found out she cheated seven weeks ago. She left me dangling on a thread for seven weeks in the hope of reconciliation. I am a mess, my marriage is over. I asked her about this other fella and what was going to happen?. Basically, she said I don't know what he is going to do with his wife?. Which indicates they are still in touch and have plans. Apparently he told his wife that an affair went on and wife told me they have agreed to work through it. But I have my doubts. Should I give his wife a heads up that he might be getting ready to ditch her?. I am not doing this for revenge. Far from it, I just think the wife should know that something could happen. I don't know her, but is it my place to let her know?. Link to post Share on other sites
dreamingoftigers Posted November 13, 2013 Share Posted November 13, 2013 Hi, Yesterday, my wife told me our marriage was over after I found out she cheated seven weeks ago. She left me dangling on a thread for seven weeks in the hope of reconciliation. I am a mess, my marriage is over. I asked her about this other fella and what was going to happen?. Basically, she said I don't know what he is going to do with his wife?. Which indicates they are still in touch and have plans. Apparently he told his wife that an affair went on and wife told me they have agreed to work through it. But I have my doubts. Should I give his wife a heads up that he might be getting ready to ditch her?. I am not doing this for revenge. Far from it, I just think the wife should know that something could happen. I don't know her, but is it my place to let her know?. I'm sorry to hear about your marriage. And yes, I'd let the wife know. She might not want to hear about it, but that's on her not you. I'm sorry that your wife put you through this. You will get through it. Link to post Share on other sites
2.50 a gallon Posted November 13, 2013 Share Posted November 13, 2013 Definitely inform the OM's wife. The chances are that she is like you was and is till in the dark Also, there is a good chance that the OM has done this before, and if he hasn't you can be sure that this won't be the first time. So by informing his wife, you are possibly stopping another married man, being put in your shoes. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Misadventure Posted November 13, 2013 Share Posted November 13, 2013 Definitely inform the OM's wife. The chances are that she is like you was and is till in the dark Also, there is a good chance that the OM has done this before, and if he hasn't you can be sure that this won't be the first time. So by informing his wife, you are possibly stopping another married man, being put in your shoes. Normally I wouldn't say get involved in a Jerry Springer potential show idea..but... this post is full of food for thought. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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