HokeyReligions Posted December 21, 2004 Share Posted December 21, 2004 Originally posted by zilverenvlinder not be the most attractive person there, to YOU. I'm always attracted to the most attractive man there. If I didn't think he was the most attractive man there -- he wouldn't attract me! First thing I notice is smile (mouth and eyes) Then I notice laughter Those are the first "attractors" for me. If you are asking about body type and physical looks only -- there is no way to describe it. Everyone has unique qualities. The only way I can give a frame of reference is by telling what celebrities I find attractive so that you can see how varied they are. I think the sexiest and most alluring and attractive man ever was Danny Kaye. I told my husband once that Danny Kaye would be the only man I'd leave him for! (back when Danny was alive of course!) Here he is: http://www.geocities.com/Wellesley/4214/dannykaye.html or here: http://www.angelfire.com/film/dannykaye/DannyKaye.htm Yumm...... He has it all. Character in his face, a great smile with his mouth and his eyes. (The only other celebrity smile that I think is anywhere close to Danny Kayes smile is Jimmy Stewart. Just think of that smile at the end of the movie It's a Wonderful Life) Sigh------ Anyway, after Danny Kaye I like Sean Connery. Mainly his smile and voice---I could listen to him for hours and I adore how he looks now. I think he is far sexier because he is softer now, than when he played James Bond. Does anyone remember the TV show MASH? Remember Charles Emmerson Winchester III? Played by David Ogden Stires. I still think he was hot in the '70s and hes is still good looking now, although I don't like the beard. He has character in his face, a great voice--full of passion. There is no magic formula that can describe the man who can make my thighs quiver or my heart race. My husband, when we met, was a pudgy, slightly balding man, who was nervous talking to me. He has a crooked smile and laughing eyes. He's a larger and balder version now---same great crooked smile and same laughing eyes. None of the rest matters to me as far as looks go. I do like larger men over all, I don't like to cuddle up to a stick or a hard bunch of muscles and have nothing to hold on to. Might as well cuddle a rock or a tree! Link to post Share on other sites
Missy1171 Posted December 21, 2004 Share Posted December 21, 2004 My type is: At least 5'8, I am 5'7 Foreign Looking men (Hispanic, latino,Indian,asian, All of them! Nice teeth/smile Dark hair/eyes Mustache and or goatee Hairy chest Not skinny, a little on the pudgy size. I don't like skinny men! Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted December 21, 2004 Share Posted December 21, 2004 Originally posted by Missy1171 My type is: At least 5'8, I am 5'7 Foreign Looking men (Hispanic, latino,Indian,asian, All of them! Nice teeth/smile Dark hair/eyes Mustache and or goatee Hairy chest Not skinny, a little on the pudgy size. I don't like skinny men! baby, let's hook up! Link to post Share on other sites
Missy1171 Posted December 21, 2004 Share Posted December 21, 2004 Lol Alpha! Link to post Share on other sites
babybear Posted December 21, 2004 Share Posted December 21, 2004 I guess I don't really have a type b/c 2 of my most serious relationships have been with guys who have looked NOTHING alike. Different heights, weights, ethnicities, personalities... Umm...but...for me I think it would just have to be a guy who is tall (at least 5'10), reasonably built (a love handle here or there is all good), but definitely someone who is just hilarious and has an amazing sense of humor. That is sexy. Bb Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted December 22, 2004 Share Posted December 22, 2004 A good brain is the sexiest thing there is. The looks of the brain's container are irrelevant. I haven't had thousands of guys, but I've had a variety of shapes and sizes and whatever the looks of the fellow I care about at the time may be are the looks that turn my crank. I can always find something physically sexy about someone I care about. In terms of being attracted, often a voice or a scent will get to me much more than looks will. Some voices are just purrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. Link to post Share on other sites
liono Posted December 22, 2004 Share Posted December 22, 2004 I like a girl who dresses classy, is classy, educated. I like nice legs and girls who laugh at my jokes. Link to post Share on other sites
Devildog Posted December 22, 2004 Share Posted December 22, 2004 Well, since it looks like I will be re-entering the dating world it is nice to see that I fit the type most of the women here seems to find attractive. There might be hope for me. Biggest thing for me is a woman with long hair, preferably dark hair. So few women actually have long hair now days, it is a shame. Never been a boob man and anything above a C cup starts to subtract points in my opinion. A B or a C is good. Not much for the anorexic types. Has to have a little bit of curves. Nice butt, not a J-Lo butt. And if she has olive skin......... As for clothes, she has to dress with class, not flash. If she is dressed like a skank or slut I'm not going to waste my time. Link to post Share on other sites
ConfusedInOC Posted December 22, 2004 Share Posted December 22, 2004 Originally posted by zilverenvlinder Guys and girls both, I want to know what your types are! You know what I mean...you walk into a bar/club, and there's that guy or girl that may not be the most attractive person there, but you are instantly drawn to them because they fit your description of mate material. It's being a little superficial, but everyone does it! So what are your types everyone??? Mine. Hmm. I like guys with lots of dark, messy hair (sideburns optional), a little bit of facial hair, a little bit of meat on their bones, who are usually in bands (yes, i'm a total groupie), and the weird thing is, most of the guys I find attractive wear glasses. Hmm. <3 Adria I don't think I have a "type" since I have a formula that my brain uses to decide if someone is atrractive. W=Brains X=Personality Y=Charm Z=Looks You get 1 point for having each one. You need all four points. No exceptions. I know this sounds rather odd to some people, but W, X and Y carry 2x the weight of Z. You don't have to be overly attractive. Just average is fine. But if you have a great W and Z and a lot of Y, that'll shoot ya right to the top Link to post Share on other sites
kellyp1 Posted December 22, 2004 Share Posted December 22, 2004 A look in the eye attracts me first and keeps me there. Have to see intelligence, playfullness and passion when I first look into his eyes. By intelligence I mean with whatever he is doing at that moment in time. Ideal characteristics: - Hispanic a plus (even though I look token white girl, my Dad is Spanish and I grew up around Hispanics, love the machismo) - Loves sports (I write an NFL column) - Taller than me (I am 5'7") - Love handles all the way - little beer gut is ok - Has decent amount of hair (don't dig the early 30's, almost bald look) - Is not focused on money - Knows how to play and work hard - Is an individual who respects that I am an individual - Is a beer drinker first and foremost (down to earth) Link to post Share on other sites
morrigan Posted December 22, 2004 Share Posted December 22, 2004 -Long dark hair or a shaved head, sideburns, has to have some facial hair -piercings/tattoos -height/weight isn't that regimented, my current bf is tall and lean, my ex looked like a young Telly Savalas -a well developed brain -similar interests in music and books, likes to hike -no smoking/occasional social drinker - kindness and an even temperment are never overrated Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted December 22, 2004 Share Posted December 22, 2004 My type... Well RIGHT NOW LOL My type has.. Dark short messy hair Brown eyes Long eyelashes Beutiful smile (pretty teeth) 6'3 (I'm 5'5 so.. lol he's tall!) Rockin body Looks so damn good in jeans.. yum! Smells good He looks a lot like Josh Hartnet.. he's a doll and he's sooooo amazing in his personality... I typically go for guys with dark hair.... Accents... always good! Link to post Share on other sites
ConfusedInOC Posted December 22, 2004 Share Posted December 22, 2004 Originally posted by Merin My type... Well RIGHT NOW LOL My type has.. Dark short messy hair Brown eyes Long eyelashes Beutiful smile (pretty teeth) 6'3 (I'm 5'5 so.. lol he's tall!) Rockin body Looks so damn good in jeans.. yum! Smells good He looks a lot like Josh Hartnet.. he's a doll and he's sooooo amazing in his personality... I typically go for guys with dark hair.... Accents... always good! I've always wondered why shorter women want really tall men. It looks odd to me. Different strokes I guess. I don't have a type. I give each woman I meet an equal chance to win me over. You'd be amazed at how much personality and charm override looks..... And I am amazed at how many people rate looks first. Yes, I know you need some physical attraction but when you make that the crux of looking for a partner, you often let the better fit get away..... Link to post Share on other sites
LiveLoveLaugh Posted December 22, 2004 Share Posted December 22, 2004 Originally posted by Merin My type... Well RIGHT NOW LOL My type has.. Dark short messy hair Brown eyes Long eyelashes Beutiful smile (pretty teeth) 6'3 (I'm 5'5 so.. lol he's tall!) Rockin body Looks so damn good in jeans.. yum! Smells good He looks a lot like Josh Hartnet.. he's a doll and he's sooooo amazing in his personality... I typically go for guys with dark hair.... Accents... always good! Ok, Merin, he have a brother?? Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted December 22, 2004 Share Posted December 22, 2004 My type: Around 5'6" Dark hair Light eyes Nice smile with good teeth and full lips but not too full Nice stomach, doesn't have to be toned, just...nice. Nice arms (I know, weird but I like nice arms) Smart Funny Entertaining Loyal Honest Trustworthy Laidback Understanding Passionate If a girl has these and happens to have nice breasts (I've found 36C to be perfect) and a sweet ass, it's icing on the cake. Link to post Share on other sites
clandestinidad Posted December 22, 2004 Share Posted December 22, 2004 UCFKevin...I'm apparently perfect for you!!!! lol (I also lived in Central FL for about 10yrs!!!!....wait...that IS what the UCF stands for isnt it???) oops hold on....my tits arent that big....i'm pretty thin This is a great thread!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted December 22, 2004 Share Posted December 22, 2004 Delete this! Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted December 22, 2004 Share Posted December 22, 2004 I said icing on the cake. Breasts aren't the end-all be-all of attraction for me. You look like you'd be perfect for me, to be honest. Thin's good. Where the hell do you live now? Move to Los Angeles! And yeah, UCF stands for Central Florida. What a waste, we probably lived right next to each other for years. Link to post Share on other sites
clandestinidad Posted December 22, 2004 Share Posted December 22, 2004 LOL....right now I live in TX.....BLEH!!!! (sorry, no offense to Texans...but central FL is SOOO much better) PM me if you want, otherwise we'll get griped at for posting off-topic!!! (these people can get so shrewd sometimes.....j/k) Back on topic though.....A big attraction factor for me is their body language.....not only before talking, but especially after they open their mouths. They have to initially look confident, but if their body lang. indicates ARROGANCE then I want nothing to do with them. Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted December 22, 2004 Share Posted December 22, 2004 Originally posted by LiveLoveLaugh Ok, Merin, he have a brother?? He actually DOES have a brother.. BUT dammmnnn it! LOL his brother is married doh! Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted December 22, 2004 Share Posted December 22, 2004 Originally posted by ConfusedInOC I've always wondered why shorter women want really tall men. It looks odd to me. Different strokes I guess. I don't have a type. I give each woman I meet an equal chance to win me over. You'd be amazed at how much personality and charm override looks..... And I am amazed at how many people rate looks first. Yes, I know you need some physical attraction but when you make that the crux of looking for a partner, you often let the better fit get away..... Actually I DON'T prefer a super tall guy.. he just happens to be that tall. AND I'm pretty lucky (so far so good ) that he also happens to be THE NICEST guy I've EVER dated. Regardless if a guy is nice to look at IF he isn't nice to spend time with, I wouldn't be about it. Link to post Share on other sites
Scott S Posted December 22, 2004 Share Posted December 22, 2004 Originally posted by zilverenvlinder Guys and girls both, I want to know what your types are! I've found myself most attracted to tall brunettes. Perhaps merely a coincidence, but another common denominator is that every woman with whom I have been in a love relationship has worn glasses. For a personality, I definitely prefer an intellectual type. Link to post Share on other sites
moofer Posted December 23, 2004 Share Posted December 23, 2004 brownish skin light brown eyes brown hair not taller than me lol smiles a lot Link to post Share on other sites
roxy_silver16 Posted December 24, 2004 Share Posted December 24, 2004 I really don't have a set "type" that I date, I find myself attracted to lots of different guys. My boyfriend now is: Average height 5'11 Medium build, more on the sporty side, not too beefy blondish brownish hair, beautiful blue eyes short, messy spikey hair great dresser, really cares about his appearance very abercrombie preppy style big feet, normal sized hands nice smile and the cutest baby face you've ever seen The only bad thing about him is, he has chest hair, not alot but I like pretty much NO hair. But I deal with it, cause he is such a cutey and a nice guy Smart and hilarious, very original and creative, sensitive and sweet But my ideal type, the type I am most attrated too is completely opposite! Tall, 6'0, 6'1 Soccer player frame, sporty but pretty tall and lanky messy, curly, soccer boy, shaggy hair (looks so cute with a backwards hat with little curls sticking out) pretty eyes (i love sparkely blue or big brown) a nice smile and a baby face (always go for the younger looking boys) preppy dresser-a little on the hippyish side no body hair big feet, normal sized hands Great sense of humor and original, not a player type More aggressive but still sweet and sensitive Link to post Share on other sites
CurvyGurl Posted December 24, 2004 Share Posted December 24, 2004 Breathing Must have teeth Must have hair Must not be writing/calling from the county jail. Everything else I can work around. Link to post Share on other sites
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