trevzilla Posted December 18, 2013 Share Posted December 18, 2013 If I'm interested I just ask them out. No confusion where I'm concerned. I guess guys are shy. Also flirting certainly helps, guys need help. Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted December 18, 2013 Share Posted December 18, 2013 Phoe! How's it going with the dude? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Phoe Posted December 18, 2013 Author Share Posted December 18, 2013 Phoe! How's it going with the dude? Amazing. Absolutely amazing. I haven't written about details here since I know there will be naysayers and people who disagree with the speed at which things have moved, and no doubt the both of us are stunned at how quickly things have moved, but it's been so natural. We are both mad about each other... I have never believed in "the one" because I believe there's more than just one person out there in the world who would be a good long term match, but if I did believe in it, I'd say he is the one. We have been completely inseparable from the moment we met. I have to force us to part ways and spend time on our own and we both hate it. 6 Link to post Share on other sites
Under The Radar Posted December 18, 2013 Share Posted December 18, 2013 We're all really happy for you ! Link to post Share on other sites
veggirl Posted December 18, 2013 Share Posted December 18, 2013 Oh Phoe Fingers crossed. Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted December 18, 2013 Share Posted December 18, 2013 Amazing. Absolutely amazing. I haven't written about details here since I know there will be naysayers and people who disagree with the speed at which things have moved, and no doubt the both of us are stunned at how quickly things have moved, but it's been so natural. We are both mad about each other... I have never believed in "the one" because I believe there's more than just one person out there in the world who would be a good long term match, but if I did believe in it, I'd say he is the one. We have been completely inseparable from the moment we met. I have to force us to part ways and spend time on our own and we both hate it. In other words, your enagaged to be married on January 1st Link to post Share on other sites
SincereOnlineGuy Posted December 20, 2013 Share Posted December 20, 2013 Amazing. Absolutely amazing. I haven't written about details here since I know there will be naysayers and people who disagree with the speed at which things have moved, and no doubt the both of us are stunned at how quickly things have moved, but it's been so natural. We are both mad about each other... I have never believed in "the one" because I believe there's more than just one person out there in the world who would be a good long term match, but if I did believe in it, I'd say he is the one. We have been completely inseparable from the moment we met. I have to force us to part ways and spend time on our own and we both hate it. Somehow this isn't surprising... and yet it seems sooooooooooooooooooooooo polar opposite of the image you love to project here, about you and your social life... that akin to, say, "Glum" on "Gulliver's Travels": {extreeeeeemely doubtful tone: } "It'll never wooooooooork, we'll never maaaaake it" or "It'll never wooooooooooooork, they'll fiiiiiiiiiiind us" (anybody who doesn't already know that tone, can find snippets on YouTube) It's enjoyable humor, for the most part, because you're such a babe, and everybody knows it. Link to post Share on other sites
Ajax Posted December 20, 2013 Share Posted December 20, 2013 Amazing. Absolutely amazing. I haven't written about details here since I know there will be naysayers and people who disagree with the speed at which things have moved, and no doubt the both of us are stunned at how quickly things have moved, but it's been so natural. We are both mad about each other... I have never believed in "the one" because I believe there's more than just one person out there in the world who would be a good long term match, but if I did believe in it, I'd say he is the one. We have been completely inseparable from the moment we met. I have to force us to part ways and spend time on our own and we both hate it. Everyone advises people to take things slow and let things develop at their own pace, but sometimes the natural pace is "head over heals, can't get enough of your love baby." I know I always tell folks to slow it down, but with my current relationship it was pretty much love at first sight, and we're still going strong despite having been told to "take it slow." When you know you know. Good luck Phoe! Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted December 20, 2013 Share Posted December 20, 2013 Amazing. Absolutely amazing. I haven't written about details here since I know there will be naysayers and people who disagree with the speed at which things have moved, and no doubt the both of us are stunned at how quickly things have moved, but it's been so natural. We are both mad about each other... I have never believed in "the one" because I believe there's more than just one person out there in the world who would be a good long term match, but if I did believe in it, I'd say he is the one. We have been completely inseparable from the moment we met. I have to force us to part ways and spend time on our own and we both hate it. Yay, Phoe! Screw the naysayers. So what if it doesn't last forever and ever? Doesn't change the fact that you had and are still having a blast of a time. And there's still a chance of the 'forever and ever', even if there's no guarantee. Enjoy the moment. Link to post Share on other sites
SincereOnlineGuy Posted December 20, 2013 Share Posted December 20, 2013 Everyone advises people to take things slow and let things develop at their own pace, but sometimes the natural pace is "head over heals, Yeah, and Loveshack is where the heals come in... Link to post Share on other sites
jimloveslips Posted December 20, 2013 Share Posted December 20, 2013 Amazing. Absolutely amazing I'm sick with jealousy. You better tell him that if he screws this up theres a whole Community here who will rip him apart… There should be a special place on LS to post such success stories to give the rest of us losers hope. (Well, not that I'm looking, LS helped me sort that out to...) Congrats and have fun! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Phoe Posted December 20, 2013 Author Share Posted December 20, 2013 I'm sick with jealousy. You better tell him that if he screws this up theres a whole Community here who will rip him apart… There should be a special place on LS to post such success stories to give the rest of us losers hope. (Well, not that I'm looking, LS helped me sort that out to...) Congrats and have fun! Thank you I think a little sub forum for OLD success might be nice. I mean, it'll be a few years before anyone could truly call it a real bonafide success, but so far he and I are doing wonderfully. Lots of good in store for us. We both deleted our OLD accounts together. He had a fun time reading a few of the weirder messages I'd received haha. Link to post Share on other sites
felicity1 Posted December 21, 2013 Share Posted December 21, 2013 Eternal's list is very good. You'll notice he's looking at you. He'll do stuff to get your attention. He'll look for opportunities to be in your presence and communicate with you and do things for you. He'll ask questions about you. He'll compliment you. He'll initiate communication with you. He'll ask for your email address or phone number. He'll email/text/call you. He'll invite you to participate in activities with him. He'll ask you for a date. Bottom line is, if a man likes you and wants you, he'll come after you. I've known many men who stare at me, try to get my attention, scramble to be in my presence and communicate with me, but that's as far as it goes, it stops there. And it continues in this fashion for ever and there's never any progress to the next stage. I think many men like to flirt/get an ego boost and want nothing more b/c they're just not interested in being committed. Link to post Share on other sites
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