disco nat Posted December 23, 2004 Share Posted December 23, 2004 Hi there Its been a while since Ive been online here. last time I was here someone made me see sense that explained that I had to move on because my ex wasnt coming back this really hurt but maybe they were right. I am alot stronger than I use to be and have been moving on with me life alone with my ex I still think about him and wonder what hes up to espiecally this time of year. And dispite that Im feeling alot better if I was told that I had one wish It would be to be back with my ex becuase I do still love him and miss him terribly. I use to contact him often and send him emails but I have keft him alone I havent contacted him in two months. than just last week out of the blue he sent me an email which said hi how are you? I couldnt believe it because last time we spoke he told me he never wanted to hear from me again and he didnt want me for a girlfriend or a friend. and here he was contacting me it was strange kept the conversation short. he told me that whenever Im online to feel free to send him a email he would like to know how Im getting on. I cant understand the sudden chenge of heart I dont know what to do do I have a chance with him xx Link to post Share on other sites
Barby Posted December 23, 2004 Share Posted December 23, 2004 Since clearly I don't know either one of you personally I can't say for sure but my advice is don't make more out of this than it is, he sent you an email to see how you are doing, he didn't mention anything about wanting to reconcile with you. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr Spock Posted December 23, 2004 Share Posted December 23, 2004 You should delete his email, block his MSN. After he's been cruel, you don't need him confusing you again and sending you mixed signals. He won't come back, he's feeling nostalgic and you DON'T need that. Link to post Share on other sites
cyberbabie30 Posted December 24, 2004 Share Posted December 24, 2004 I agree with Mr Spock about your ex and why he is making contact with you. The only other reason why he may be contacting you is that he may of broken up with someone else or is just lonely. He may need to go back to a comfort zone, some men do that until something else comes along. I have had past ex's make contact with me from either 2 months to a year later after we broke up, I would see them once and never bother with them again. I would only meet with them once just to show them that it was their loss not mine. Of course when they did make contact with me, I no longer had an interest in them. So it made it easy for me to just walk away the second time. Link to post Share on other sites
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