Cae Posted November 17, 2013 Share Posted November 17, 2013 I didn't find out until a year into the relationship that my bf was a cannabis user, at that point I knew it was wrong to keep him but it was too late I was in love. We were together for 2 and a half years, and I have now given him an ultimation me or the drugs and he says he wants to stop taking it. He has a well paid job and says the only was to stop is for me to move in and support him cos without me 'he crumbles' and to give his job up so he has no money to buy it. What do I do? I am scared he will let me down and we will get into financial problems and will he be able to get another job? Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted November 17, 2013 Share Posted November 17, 2013 The finances are not the greatest worry . . . the drug conviction is your greatest worrry. I wouldn't take the chance. I'd want to see progress toward sobriety / quitting before I made the commitment. Problem is if he quits for you, it won't stick. He has to quit for him. Go to a Narc-Anon meeting: like Al-Anon it's a support group for people in love with addicts. Link to post Share on other sites
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