emi Posted November 19, 2013 Share Posted November 19, 2013 He is my best friend, easy-going, kind etc but the problem is his gf is a bitch. Shes spent alot of his money, tell him to stop seeing his friends ( including me). She is emotional and verbaly harass him but whenever i scold him to dump her ass, he keep making excuse for her. Then something happened, they broken up. Now everytime she saw me she harass me,even in public, because she think im the reason behind it. HELL NO! Im just his friend. There is nothing between us. I got angry and tell him all the thing, and somehome i blame him for it. Now he completely avoiding me What i suppose to do now?!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted November 19, 2013 Share Posted November 19, 2013 You try to reinstate him in your life & you shut up about his GF unless asked. If you keep making comments about her you will lose him. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
GG3 Posted November 19, 2013 Share Posted November 19, 2013 Don't tell him to dump her. Let him decide those things for himself and just be a listener. Or if it's so terrible, tell him you care about him but can't listen to it anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
Iguanna Posted November 20, 2013 Share Posted November 20, 2013 Nobody can know exactly what is going on between a couple than the couple themselves. It's really wrong to give advises without even being asked to someone about his/her partner, even if he/she make complaints, I am still hesitant to say my opinion because I know that after they solve their problems I will be the b..tch who advised them to break up or something. Link to post Share on other sites
Author emi Posted November 21, 2013 Author Share Posted November 21, 2013 I wasnt trying to manupulate him or anything. Its just i saw my friend suffering and i cant stop telling him to snap out of it. They broken up. However now shes keep messing with me by harassing me in public and back-stabbing Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted November 21, 2013 Share Posted November 21, 2013 I wasnt trying to manupulate him or anything. Its just i saw my friend suffering and i cant stop telling him to snap out of it. They broken up. However now shes keep messing with me by harassing me in public and back-stabbing What exactly is she doing to you? You can stick up for yourself but sometimes ignoring people like this is your best bet. They go away when they don't get a reaction. Link to post Share on other sites
Author emi Posted November 21, 2013 Author Share Posted November 21, 2013 Because if you are a friend.act like one. Telling him once your opinion is enough. Keep telling him etc. Make ot look like you are actimg Like someone inlove but act like she is just a friend He is grown I guess so its not your place to keep telling him. Its like forcing him. Im honestly dont feel anything romantically to him. Im completely feel nothing. I dont think i need to lie in forum where im anymounous. Its just i think its better for him to remove her of his life. Hes also agree but somehow doesnt got a strengh to do it Link to post Share on other sites
Author emi Posted November 21, 2013 Author Share Posted November 21, 2013 What exactly is she doing to you? You can stick up for yourself but sometimes ignoring people like this is your best bet. They go away when they don't get a reaction. she told people that i have been seducing him for money lol Link to post Share on other sites
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