Author Dumped85 Posted December 8, 2013 Author Share Posted December 8, 2013 Its me that has the problem, she changed it back again. I just wanto stop:( Link to post Share on other sites
cavalier99 Posted December 8, 2013 Share Posted December 8, 2013 Its been 6 months since BU???. Wooooah. This changes things a lot. I reccomended changong everthing but like the 1st week or so after the BU. Now you will just look psycho and stalkerish. You need to get some self control dude or she might call the police. This is bad bad and an addiction. Cold turkey for you. Cav 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Dumped85 Posted December 8, 2013 Author Share Posted December 8, 2013 Its been 6 months since BU???. Wooooah. This changes things a lot. I reccomended changong everthing but like the 1st week or so after the BU. Now you will just look psycho and stalkerish. You need to get some self control dude or she might call the police. This is bad bad and an addiction. Cold turkey for you. Cav I know its doing harm, and what she does has nothing to do with me. I hate that I feel and act This way actually ,over a woman. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Dumped85 Posted December 10, 2013 Author Share Posted December 10, 2013 She keeps changing it back, I hope it can't be tracked back to me. Im done with it now. Link to post Share on other sites
MoooOinkBaaa Posted December 10, 2013 Share Posted December 10, 2013 Brah she knows. You're an addict so you wouldn't of concluded it but she's talking to a guy FULLY aware you are into her e-mail account. Why would someone change a tampered password back to the original, multiple times!?? Only a complete lunatic would do that. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Dumped85 Posted December 10, 2013 Author Share Posted December 10, 2013 This experience has made me crazy, Link to post Share on other sites
Author Dumped85 Posted December 10, 2013 Author Share Posted December 10, 2013 I realize that, Link to post Share on other sites
Author Dumped85 Posted December 10, 2013 Author Share Posted December 10, 2013 yeah, I have to.Its not worth it. If someone was doing this when I was with her I'd be pi$$ed. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
cavalier99 Posted December 10, 2013 Share Posted December 10, 2013 Shes purposley tormenting you..and its working!! lol Cav Link to post Share on other sites
Author Dumped85 Posted December 10, 2013 Author Share Posted December 10, 2013 (edited) I think she is, its not funny. Well it kinda is:eek:. From now on self control is where it needs to be at. What goes on with her is none of my business. Edited December 10, 2013 by Dumped85 Link to post Share on other sites
MoooOinkBaaa Posted December 11, 2013 Share Posted December 11, 2013 OP did you check her e-mail today? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Dumped85 Posted December 11, 2013 Author Share Posted December 11, 2013 OP did you check her e-mail today? Unfortunately yes:(.....I can't stop. But I know its wrong and none of my business. I don't know what to do. Link to post Share on other sites
cavalier99 Posted December 11, 2013 Share Posted December 11, 2013 (edited) Unfortunately yes:(.....I can't stop. But I know its wrong and none of my business. I don't know what to do. it takes 3 week to form new habits. If you can go 3 weeks with out checking you stand a pretty good chance of stopping. You can also go to AA meetings and just replace the alcohol problem with your looking at her account problem. 1 meeting a day and 1 day at a time!! lol Edited December 11, 2013 by cavalier99 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Never Again Posted December 11, 2013 Share Posted December 11, 2013 Jesus Christ. Go and see someone to talk about it. Post here every time you want to do it. Get away from the computer. Tell her that you're compulsively checking her email and can she please change her password. Yep. You need to tell her that you're breaking into her stuff and she needs to change it. Or just stop. If she's playing this game, she's not going to change it...she'll just leave it and, every time she feels you've checked up on her, she'll get an ego boost knowing that you just can't quit her. I'm not saying it's right to leave her in the dark, but it seems like she knows and obviously doesn't care. I know my ex's passwords too - but even after the breakup, I respect and myself to damn much to break into her stuff. OP, you're better than this, so knock it off. As aspiringuitarheroine said, post here when you feel the urge...or just walk away from the computer. Every time you feel that pang, go do something else...run a mile, do some pushups, punch yourself in the dick...whatever it takes to get your mind off it. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
MoooOinkBaaa Posted December 12, 2013 Share Posted December 12, 2013 LOL bro have you actually gone a day yet without logging into her e-mail? If you have how long? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Dumped85 Posted December 12, 2013 Author Share Posted December 12, 2013 No, unfortunately Link to post Share on other sites
Author Dumped85 Posted December 12, 2013 Author Share Posted December 12, 2013 (edited) I wonder if its possible for someone on hear to message her to get her to change them to something completely different. Edited December 12, 2013 by Dumped85 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Dumped85 Posted December 13, 2013 Author Share Posted December 13, 2013 Anyone able to Link to post Share on other sites
Author Dumped85 Posted December 18, 2013 Author Share Posted December 18, 2013 Could anyone befriend her on Facebook and do this please? Link to post Share on other sites
Zahara Posted December 18, 2013 Share Posted December 18, 2013 Could anyone befriend her on Facebook and do this please? I think you're going off the deep end. This is ludicrous. Asking strangers to "friend" her on FB to help you stop this behavior. No self-control? Really? If this is your solution, create a fake FB profile. Friend her and ask her to change her password. PS: Is this the same woman you were talking about in July (threads on LS)? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Dumped85 Posted December 18, 2013 Author Share Posted December 18, 2013 I have no self control at all, funny thing is I don't love her anymore. Don't really care what happens to her. But this behavior is disturbing, to myself and others. I need help and I honestly don't know what to do. Getting a stranger from another country to help is the best idea I have. Considering if I contact ill be in alot of trouble. Creating a fake profile can be traced back to me aswell. I know the behavior is unacceptable, and im reading things I have no rights to. I had my chances with that woman and I wrecked it. So yeah, it is the same person from July. Link to post Share on other sites
cavalier99 Posted December 18, 2013 Share Posted December 18, 2013 Go to any 12 step meeting. It can help. Not kidding. Cav 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Dumped85 Posted December 18, 2013 Author Share Posted December 18, 2013 I think you're in a lot of trouble now. Has she got a restraining order against you? If not, how much trouble could you be in, that you're not in already? This could lead to a restraining order if I was found out to be snooping. Link to post Share on other sites
Zahara Posted December 18, 2013 Share Posted December 18, 2013 This could lead to a restraining order if I was found out to be snooping. Maybe that is what you need and what will make you stop. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
cavalier99 Posted December 18, 2013 Share Posted December 18, 2013 He isnt getting a restraining order. He needs a 12 step program to break the cycle. One hes goes a couple weeks without checking it will be easy. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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