cc Posted January 21, 2001 Share Posted January 21, 2001 I MARRIED WITH TWO CHILDREN BUT NOT VERY HAPPY IN THE MARRIAGE. ABOUT TWO YEARS AGO I STARTED TALKING TO A MARRIED MAN AT WORK WE BECAME REALLY GOOD FRIENDS WE TALK BY E-MAIL EVERY DAY AND I SEE HIM AT WORK BUT ONLY MAYBE TWO OR THREE TIMES A WEEK AND FOR ONLY HALF A HOUR AT A TIME. THE PROBLEM IS I HAVE REALLY STRONG FEELINGS FOR HIM I KNOW JUST BEING FRIENDS IS NOT RIGHT BUT WHAT CAN I DO I CANT LET HIM GO. WE HAVE NEVER HAD SEX BUT WE HUG AND KISS WHEN WE DO SEE EACH OTHER. WE HAVE FALLEN OUT QUITE A FEW TIMES ONLY BECAUSE WE SEEM TO WANT TO HURT EACH OTHER WE SEEM TO TAKE IT IN TURNS I DONT KNOW WHY. HE IS A LOT OLDER THAN ME BUT WE REALLY SEEM TO CLICK. I TELL HIM EVERY THING BUT I FEEL HE DOESNT TELL ME ANY THING BUT HE SAYS HE TELLS ME MORE THAN ANYONE ELSE AND HE TRUST ME BUT I DONT FEEL THIS. I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT HE WANTS OR WHY HE TALKS TO ME HE CAN BE A RIGHT COLD GET AT TIMES. HE AS A PROBLEM WITH SEX SO ITS NOT SEX THAT HE WANTS. COULD IT BE POSSIBLE THAT HE DOES HAVE ANY FEELINGS FOR ME ? OR IF ANY ONE AS ANY SUGGESTIONS WHAT IT IS HE IS AFTER PLEASE TELL HE REALLY CONFUSES ME AT TIMES Link to post Share on other sites
WGirl Posted January 21, 2001 Share Posted January 21, 2001 That could be why he is not pursuing anything. Maybe he just wants to be friends and thats it. If you are unhappy in your marriage, you should go for counseling or try to work things out. If it is beyond reconciliation, get a divorce. Link to post Share on other sites
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