darkmoon Posted November 21, 2013 Share Posted November 21, 2013 my friend with benefits wants to phone me for chats during the day, i think this is a nuisance, he has a job that makes this phoning okay, i do not like being phoned, just because i work from home it does not mean i want the nuisance/distraction, we normally meet/met once a fortnight i have let him go, putting myself first, told him i will call him when less busy, all but halted our arrangement, i want anything but chats when i am concentrating, I never said i did, just texts are okay told him before all this, but he did not listen BUT - he was so angry, i think he was trying to deepen our bond in a manipulative, agenda-wielding way, by7 phoning, expecting me not to notice too much - do you? Link to post Share on other sites
FitChick Posted November 24, 2013 Share Posted November 24, 2013 Does he know he is only FWB or does he think he is your boyfriend? Link to post Share on other sites
Leeway Harris Posted November 24, 2013 Share Posted November 24, 2013 Yeah, sounds like there was a failure of communication, either on his part or yours. Or maybe both. Link to post Share on other sites
Author darkmoon Posted November 26, 2013 Author Share Posted November 26, 2013 Does he know he is only FWB or does he think he is your boyfriend? i think he wants to be my boyfriend, i do not want more than FWB, and most telling was his anger in that we have a loose friendly thing, no diktats for me (or him) but now i have seen his anger, i see a new side of him, controlling, no way do i want a bossy/controlling thing Link to post Share on other sites
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