GarrusVakarian Posted November 21, 2013 Share Posted November 21, 2013 Hi, I am trying to save my marriage after my wife had an emotional affair. She moved out of the house. I am hardly speaking to her at the moment. I don't want to throw my marriage out the window over something so stupid. I was looking on the net and found relationship rewind. Has anyone used this?. Is it anygood, or just a big con?. Cheers Link to post Share on other sites
Bryanp Posted November 21, 2013 Share Posted November 21, 2013 If your wife moved out of your home due to an emotional affair it generally means: 1. It was not just an emotional affair 2. She is not able to continue the physical affair without disturbance from you. I would suggest that you get tested for STD's and see a lawyer to understand your options. A wife does not move out generally unless they already have someone lined up and the affair was physical. I wish you luck. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Realist3 Posted November 21, 2013 Share Posted November 21, 2013 If your wife moved out of your home due to an emotional affair it generally means: 1. It was not just an emotional affair 2. She is not able to continue the physical affair without disturbance from you. I would suggest that you get tested for STD's and see a lawyer to understand your options. A wife does not move out generally unless they already have someone lined up and the affair was physical. I wish you luck. This site makes a very good case for including 'conclusion jumping' as an official olympic sport. Hi, I am trying to save my marriage after my wife had an emotional affair. She moved out of the house. I am hardly speaking to her at the moment. I don't want to throw my marriage out the window over something so stupid. To her it may not be as stupid as you might like to think. A lot of folks here tend to focus on the physical aspect of affairs, but the emotional side is far greater. The brain is the largest sex organ afterall. If he has her brain/heart you are in for some tough sledding. What happens in an EA is that they find they are more compatible, personality wise, with the AP then they are with you. I don't know if there is any quick fix guide you can buy to change that reality. You need to talk to her and see if that gulf can be crossed, and what made her do it. Link to post Share on other sites
aliveagain Posted November 21, 2013 Share Posted November 21, 2013 If they haven't been physical moving out usually means she is going to be with him for a test run without feeling the guilt of you. In her mind your broken up even if she broke up with you for the O/M(other man). You can't nice her back, your best chance is to end the fantasy by exposing them, make it difficult to have the affair. Don't be her fall back guy, protect yourself, if no children are involved consider all your options. talk to a lawyer you need to know your rights. If she has already left the marriage it's best you find out now rather than wait for her to make up her mind and waste another year or two. Is the O/M married or in a relationship? You probably only know about the tip of the iceberg. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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