SadAndLonely Posted December 28, 2004 Share Posted December 28, 2004 I'm seriously freaking out here. My boyfriend, who had broken up with me three times previously, had been down about things lately, and Thursday night we had a talk and he said he wasn't sure he wanted a girlfriend, although he didn't want to break up with me. We decided that we'd just relax and take things easy and try to have fun. So the weekend went really well. Today I sent him a few emails which he checked, but he didn't respond to ANY of them, which isn't like him. I finally called him, and he answered the phone, and in a really pissy and curt voice said, "Hello?" He knows it's me, because his cell phone has caller ID like everyone's does. I asked him what was wrong, and he said his mom got a new cabinet in, and he was going to have to spend all night putting it together, and that it was in a million pieces and such. He said he'd try to call me later tonight. I asked if anything else was wrong, and he said his boss is an idiot, but that that's no news (he hates his job). So I asked if he wanted any help with the cabinet, he said no, and I said, "Ok, I'll talk to you later. Bye hon," and he said bye back. Because of Thursday, and because of his past history, I can't help but feel like he's about to dump me, and I remember how horrible it was the last time he did. I can honestly say he's a commitment phobe, but I don't know what to do. I only see him twice or maybe three times a week (occasionally more), and I try not to call him all the time, and otherwise I'm great to him, so I have no idea what to do. I am SO scared and don't want to be dumped again. I really love him, and am really happy with him, and even up to last night I thought he was really happy with me. What should I do? Link to post Share on other sites
TranslucentThoughts Posted December 28, 2004 Share Posted December 28, 2004 Well... you know him better than I do... but with what he says was going on when he was being all pissy to you... just sounds like he was in a bad mood. Wait until he gets the cabinet together and is able to relax. Then see how things go. Until then...just be calm when you talk to him, and supportive. If he wanted to break up...(which hopefully isn't the case) would he tell you straight out? Link to post Share on other sites
mischafan160 Posted December 28, 2004 Share Posted December 28, 2004 Dump him first!!!! Retain your dignity and self respect! I saw my breakup coming too for two weeks and I truly, deeply regret not breaking up with him first. It was the hugest blow to my pride, on top of feeling all the pain and rejection. He's already hurt you three times, please don't wait around for more. Link to post Share on other sites
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