ixlives Posted December 28, 2004 Share Posted December 28, 2004 Its to late because this relationship is over (i guess), but did I read into any of this wrong? My g/f had quite a few "friends" of the opposite sex, most of them she had a short relationship with, with some sort of sexual contact, the others were "friends she had met on a dating site. These were all before me, but some she would lie to me about and some she didn't. It made me very insecure about her. If you want the person your with to accept any friends and trust you, there shouldnt be any lying involved, especially if your trying to and want to be involved in some of them. Am I right or wrong? This was always a problem with us and part of the reason she ended it. We dated for 2yrs., and this seemed to be something we could never seem to resolve. Link to post Share on other sites
Adunaphel Posted December 28, 2004 Share Posted December 28, 2004 If you want the person your with to accept any friends and trust you, there shouldnt be any lying involved, especially if your trying to and want to be involved in some of them. I share your point of view. What kind of lies did she tell you about them? Was she hiding that she had a relationship with some of them? Was she seeing these 'friends' behind your back? Link to post Share on other sites
Author ixlives Posted December 28, 2004 Author Share Posted December 28, 2004 with some of them she lied to me about having relationships and what kind of relationships she had with some. She would lie about when and who she was talking to and the worse was she was lying about where and who she was with. Link to post Share on other sites
Adunaphel Posted December 28, 2004 Share Posted December 28, 2004 I'd think it's good that she is no longer your girlfriend. I can't see how anyone could trust a girlfriend who acts like that. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ixlives Posted December 28, 2004 Author Share Posted December 28, 2004 i know, i always tried to give her the benefit of the doubt, and believe what she said. I could only prove the lies I caught her in, but what a persons gut feeling is telling you something, it's usually right Link to post Share on other sites
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