thinkingofhim Posted November 23, 2013 Share Posted November 23, 2013 Obviously my MM is going to be spending Thanksgiving Day with his family (and my child and I are going to be at my mother's with family as well) but we have made reservations for dinner together on Friday so that we can have "holiday" time as well. I know Thanksgiving isn't a very romantic holiday but it is important to me to share in the holidays with my bf! Does anyone else have plans with their MM? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
BrookeRL Posted November 23, 2013 Share Posted November 23, 2013 My MM and I will be together for Thanksgiving and the entire weekend! my husband is taking our 2 sons out of town to visit his family on Tuesday, and My MM's family is also going out of town on the same day. So my boyfriend and I will leave for a romantic holiday on Wednesday and be together for 5 days. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted November 23, 2013 Share Posted November 23, 2013 Obviously my MM is going to be spending Thanksgiving Day with his family (and my child and I are going to be at my mother's with family as well) but we have made reservations for dinner together on Friday so that we can have "holiday" time as well. I know Thanksgiving isn't a very romantic holiday but it is important to me to share in the holidays with my bf! Does anyone else have plans with their MM? I thought you guys were in NC hence you were calling and hanging up at his home? For me, during the A, I spent family holidays with my family. I had plenty of family and friends around so I didn't really feel a sense of being lonely and needing to spend those days with him. Link to post Share on other sites
Author thinkingofhim Posted November 23, 2013 Author Share Posted November 23, 2013 I thought you guys were in NC hence you were calling and hanging up at his home? For me, during the A, I spent family holidays with my family. I had plenty of family and friends around so I didn't really feel a sense of being lonely and needing to spend those days with him. I think you have me confused with another poster...? I have never posted anything like this. That's lovely Brooke, I am glad you two will have this time together For me, I just love the family part of Thanksgiving, I think I would miss having my daughter too much to part with her ... unfortunate that MM cannot spend time with my family, but hopefully someday. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted November 23, 2013 Share Posted November 23, 2013 I think you have me confused with another poster...? I have never posted anything like this. That's lovely Brooke, I am glad you two will have this time together For me, I just love the family part of Thanksgiving, I think I would miss having my daughter too much to part with her ... unfortunate that MM cannot spend time with my family, but hopefully someday. My bad, you're right. Sorry for the mix up. There was another poster with the name thinking something or other, who recently posted threads about her hanging up when she calls the MM's house and who wanted the BS to consider what she did with MM as making love, but it seems her threads have vanished. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
BrookeRL Posted November 23, 2013 Share Posted November 23, 2013 I think you have me confused with another poster...? I have never posted anything like this. That's lovely Brooke, I am glad you two will have this time together For me, I just love the family part of Thanksgiving, I think I would miss having my daughter too much to part with her ... unfortunate that MM cannot spend time with my family, but hopefully someday. I will definitely miss my two boys a lot while they are away, I never got along with my husband's mom at all and I wish I could have spend Thanksgiving with my family, but my parents are going on a trip with their friends, and my brothers and sisters are going to their in laws. Link to post Share on other sites
liloldlady Posted November 23, 2013 Share Posted November 23, 2013 Does anyone else have plans with their MM? He's not married, but, yes, I have him Thanksgiving Eve. Then he's off to a freezing part of the country. He already said he's just going for their free food This man gets cold in California where we live. Am I wrong for knowing he will be miserable in the cold of that part of the country I'll be with blood relatives having food AND warm love. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted November 23, 2013 Share Posted November 23, 2013 He's not married, but, yes, I have him Thanksgiving Eve. Then he's off to a freezing part of the country. He already said he's just going for their free food This man gets cold in California where we live. Am I wrong for knowing he will be miserable in the cold of that part of the country I'll be with blood relatives having food AND warm love. He will not be that miserable Link to post Share on other sites
WrinkledForehead Posted November 23, 2013 Share Posted November 23, 2013 Our first holiday as a legitimate couple! My children will be with their dad so bf and I've planned a trip to the city for shopping and Indian food and to celebrate each other. The city is significant; we first went as a fledgling A and it was the place we found we could be freely together and unknown. Thursday we're coming home and relaxing and stopping by my parents for a drink and introduction. We are both very busy people so I'm happy for the small reprieve from school, his reprieve from work, and the holiday that allows us more time together than we'd normally have. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
liloldlady Posted November 23, 2013 Share Posted November 23, 2013 He will not be that miserable You don't know him like I do. Oh, wait! You don't know him at all 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Mascara Posted November 23, 2013 Share Posted November 23, 2013 He's not married, but, yes, I have him Thanksgiving Eve. Then he's off to a freezing part of the country. He already said he's just going for their free food This man gets cold in California where we live. Am I wrong for knowing he will be miserable in the cold of that part of the country I'll be with blood relatives having food AND warm love. Why won't you be with him then if he's not married? Sorry, I don't know your story. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
liloldlady Posted November 23, 2013 Share Posted November 23, 2013 Why won't you be with him then if he's not married? Sorry, I don't know your story. No worries. He's shacking up with his sugar mama. Link to post Share on other sites
Mascara Posted November 23, 2013 Share Posted November 23, 2013 Yuck. I don't know how anyone - guy or girl - can stand to do that. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
liloldlady Posted November 23, 2013 Share Posted November 23, 2013 Yuck. I don't know how anyone - guy or girl - can stand to do that. I don't think he feels good about it at all. Link to post Share on other sites
snowflakes88 Posted November 23, 2013 Share Posted November 23, 2013 He's not married, but, yes, I have him Thanksgiving Eve. Then he's off to a freezing part of the country. He already said he's just going for their free food This man gets cold in California where we live. Am I wrong for knowing he will be miserable in the cold of that part of the country I'll be with blood relatives having food AND warm love. You wouldn't be a sweetie pie and make him free food right there at home? 8 Link to post Share on other sites
mal0980 Posted November 23, 2013 Share Posted November 23, 2013 My 3 sons and I will be spending Thanksgiving with my family and friends also my MM will also be there, My husband will be spending Thanksgiving with his family. Then on Friday my MM and I have to go out of town on for business/romantic trip which I am so excited about. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted November 23, 2013 Share Posted November 23, 2013 My 3 sons and I will be spending Thanksgiving with my family and friends also my MM will also be there, My husband will be spending Thanksgiving with his family. Then on Friday my MM and I have to go out of town on for business/romantic trip which I am so excited about. May I ask why your husband won't be with you and your children? Are his parents unwell or do you two always spend this holiday apart instead of taking turns with each side? Not judging, just curious. Link to post Share on other sites
yellowmaverick Posted November 23, 2013 Share Posted November 23, 2013 You wouldn't be a sweetie pie and make him free food right there at home? Subtle much? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
mal0980 Posted November 23, 2013 Share Posted November 23, 2013 May I ask why your husband won't be with you and your children? Are his parents unwell or do you two always spend this holiday apart instead of taking turns with each side? Not judging, just curious. My husband and I always spend the holidays together, but this time it's different because him and I have separated, my husband moved out of the house into a hotel while we figure out how fix our marriage. Link to post Share on other sites
Author thinkingofhim Posted November 24, 2013 Author Share Posted November 24, 2013 My 3 sons and I will be spending Thanksgiving with my family and friends also my MM will also be there, My husband will be spending Thanksgiving with his family. Then on Friday my MM and I have to go out of town on for business/romantic trip which I am so excited about. Sounds similar to our plans but we won't be getting a whole trip in, just a nice dinner ... Link to post Share on other sites
Sub Posted November 24, 2013 Share Posted November 24, 2013 My husband and I always spend the holidays together, but this time it's different because him and I have separated, my husband moved out of the house into a hotel while we figure out how fix our marriage. At the risk of t/j'ing, you're trying to figure out how to fix your marriage AND spending the holiday and a romantic weekend away with the MM? Link to post Share on other sites
liloldlady Posted November 24, 2013 Share Posted November 24, 2013 You wouldn't be a sweetie pie and make him free food right there at home? Yes, I'm cooking for him on Thanksgiving Eve Link to post Share on other sites
mal0980 Posted November 24, 2013 Share Posted November 24, 2013 At the risk of t/j'ing, you're trying to figure out how to fix your marriage AND spending the holiday and a romantic weekend away with the MM? I know this will sound messed up, but I need to get my mind off things and I feel being with my MM will help and maybe this will be the last time I might be with him. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
wanting more Posted November 24, 2013 Share Posted November 24, 2013 I know this will sound messed up, but I need to get my mind off things and I feel being with my MM will help and maybe this will be the last time I might be with him. Your 3 sons know your MM? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted November 24, 2013 Share Posted November 24, 2013 My husband and I always spend the holidays together, but this time it's different because him and I have separated, my husband moved out of the house into a hotel while we figure out how fix our marriage. Does he know of your A? Sorry for the ?'s...Again, curious.. If you are trying to figure out if your marriage can be fixed or salvaged, why continue your A with your MM? Kind of defeats the purpose of fixing things if you're still with your MM. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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