yorkie Posted November 25, 2013 Share Posted November 25, 2013 first of all im sure most of you have read my pathetic posts about my badley behaved ex girlfriend 12 n half years. now been 3 months and after last weekends set back i feel great. but after reading a fellow post a lady commented that even if your ex doesnt want you back they still dont want you to move on! this got me thinking. the week before i said to my ex that i was moving on and i was sort of seeing someone else. this stirred up alot of emotions on her side and this also made her hate me more. so is it true any dumpers here? what if the dumpee actually does move on well in there eyes does do they like the fact even if they arent? Link to post Share on other sites
Philosoraptor Posted November 25, 2013 Share Posted November 25, 2013 It all depends on if the dumper is mature or not. An immature dumper (dumpee's as well) seems to have a need to "win" the breakup. Knowing that you're moving on doesn't feed their ego. Many want to know that you're still having a hard time and missing them while they are off having the time of their lives. The bottom line: Don't worry what anyone else thinks of your life. If they're upset because you're moving on that's their issue and something they need to deal with. Link to post Share on other sites
Author yorkie Posted November 25, 2013 Author Share Posted November 25, 2013 tbh i am moving on but i am trying to understand what is going on, and why she acted recently why she did, not because i want to understand in the hope i win or hope she comes back i am honestly moving on i dont have the energy to be negative anymore yes i am not over her yes i am not happy with that decsion that broke up the family but i am trying to understand her emotions i suppose as i have reflected on my own emotions since the break up if that makes sense Link to post Share on other sites
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