charming and asking for a favour

[ls90]

So in the act of attracting a girl, it might be a good idea to ask them to do a favor. However, when they do the favour, should your response be to shower them with gratitude or act unimpressed to develop intrigue and attraction?

 

Acting unimpressed may go with the pull-push tactic. You compliment them by asking for a favour, but then you push them away when you're not fulfilled/impressed by their effort - pushing them away.

[Phoe]

If you ask me to do a favor and then act unimpressed about it, I will think you are a rude person and will likely never do any favors for you ever again.

 

Being ungrateful is not an attractive quality!

[lollipopspot]

What kind of favor will you be asking them to do?

 

That's also a tactic of serial killers (like Bundy), by the way.

[HeartDesires]

So in the act of attracting a girl, it might be a good idea to ask them to do a favor. However, when they do the favour, should your response be to shower them with gratitude or act unimpressed to develop intrigue and attraction?

 

wait...What???

 

Acting "unimpressed" is not charming.

[Never Again]

Christ, glad that cognitive dissonance is being used for good.

 

Ben Franklin effect - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

 

To those wondering, it's not about being charming or rude...it's about tricking someone into having the tendency to do things for you.

 

Then you'll have an easier time "charming" them...aka picking them up.

 

This is just pickup artist BS (like "push-pull", another pickup artist thing). I wouldn't answer anything he says seriously.

[mikecr50]

Games are for jerk offs-back to it!