Haydn Posted November 30, 2013 Share Posted November 30, 2013 Dont think this way! Link to post Share on other sites
fixing Posted December 1, 2013 Share Posted December 1, 2013 Nobody on this earth should ever take their own life. Especially over an ex. Life is the greatest gift of all. Suck it up, and you will come through this. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
SincereOnlineGuy Posted December 1, 2013 Share Posted December 1, 2013 ok i get it. i know i shouldn't of re-posted my threads. i understand. so please stop bashing me on it No, that's not it at all... You're reaching-out... toward other people, in the way that is instinctive among the 'best' of potentially suicidal people... and that part is absolutely fine. However, when people, collectively, respond with sincerity to your (very fair efforts at self-preservation)... and you don't even look to see if anybody cares... then you haven't earned the right to say or think that nobody cares. If somebody here is really suicidal, and doesn't have many other places to turn... she certainly has my endorsement to write anything she wishes to communicate here at LS. ... and to do so as often as she wishes... though it would stand to reason that she might stop writing for long enough to at least thumb through what others may have offered in response to earlier posts. I wish you the very best... but at least some of it has to originate from within you. Link to post Share on other sites
MrBossMan Posted December 1, 2013 Share Posted December 1, 2013 (edited) ok i get it. i know i shouldn't of re-posted my threads. i understand. so please stop bashing me on it I'm with you. Who cares? If anyone doesn't like it, then move on. She's just trying to get some support and you guys aren't helping by whining about reposting. If anyone has a problem, just move on. ANYWAY, don't feel bad about him. You don't need him or any man to feel good about yourself. You're your own woman, and maybe you should just take some time to find yourself, separate from any man. Try to fill your life with things that make you feel good. It's difficult at first, but look for some things that you can go out and do routinely. Don't just sit around and think about your relationship. Do things that will have a positive effect on your life and self-esteem. Get some accomplishments under your belt. Learn a language. Learn a new skill that would make any other girl jealous. Make new friends. Start a small business. Hit the gym hard or start running. Change your wardrobe or hairstyle. Anything. Make it so that if this guy saw you, he'd have to double-take. You need to grow from this. That's why these things happen. It's like lifting weights. It hurts and burns, but it makes you better when you heal. Try to keep your eyes focused on the big picture. You were way too good for him anyway, and you need to learn your value. Raise your standards high when it comes to men. Hold your head up and don't let just any guy get to you. You deserve a quality man in your life, but remember that you come first right now. All the best, beautiful. Edited December 1, 2013 by MrBossMan Link to post Share on other sites
SincereOnlineGuy Posted December 1, 2013 Share Posted December 1, 2013 I'm with you. Who cares? If anyone doesn't like it, then move on. She's just trying to get some support BossMan, it seems you don't know what "support" is, in this context. Link to post Share on other sites
reddragon588 Posted December 1, 2013 Share Posted December 1, 2013 I'm sorry you are hurting. If you are experiencing suicidal thoughts, that is extremely serious and you need to see a professional about it. There is no shame in this. But suicidal thoughts are beyond this board's expertise. Might I suggest the suicide hotline: Need help? In the U.S., call 1-800-273-8255 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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